Hi all. Just needing somewhere to put down my feelings - no need for any replies. Just been told that hubby's cousin is pregnant to a guy she has been dating since Christmas (he lives a plane journey away from her). His family are not happy at all, although hers are over the moon. I'm trying my best to be positie about it - she has been single a long time, and met him on the internet and is soooo happy with him, so it's a good thing. I just wish it was me . I got my first peak on my monitor today and we have BDd (hubby is nightshift :P), but I just haven't felt any PMA at all this month.

We have our first infertility appointment next month and I have a horrible feeling at the back of my mind that it's going to be a long journey with no real answers for us.

Aw hunny sorry your feeling down, didn't want to read and run

Sending u some PMA, you have got a peak and managed to bd so this is good, must be hard with hubby on nighshifts, heres hoping you won't need your infertility appointment but if you do it is a step in the right direction

(((hugs)))) x

It feels so unfair doesnt it? its very hard to stay positive when you feel you are the only one not getting pregnant. You are on the right track going to a fertility clinic.How long have you been ttc?

Angelheart
x x

Thanks girls. I guess it just seems like most folk we know get pregnant by accident and I suppose thr answer would be to stop "trying" but I can't! With a constant nightshift hubby we have to make sure we spend quality time together never mind get down to babymaking! It's east to lose track of when you dtd!

We're on month 16 now which I know isn't ages compared to some folk in here but in real life it seems that everyone gets pregnant straight away?

Fingers crossed but if not we have the consultant next month. Xx