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Long term TTC & infertility
06/08/2014 at 21:23
We have been TTC for the past 5 years. I have been diagnosed with a few small cysts on my ovaries, but been told this shouldn't affect fertility. Hubby had a vasectomy reversal 5 years ago.
I have a child from previous relationship 9 years ago.
I was put on Clomid for a few cycles, however today my consultant has told me there is nothing else he can do to help as hubbys sperm doesn't seem to be doing it's job. He has said he suggests IVF but that would only have a 30% success rate.
Is it worth gambling £3500 on a 30% chance - that would clear our savings.
Do we keep trying and feel grateful that I already have a child?
Sorry for the rambling but I don't know what to do. xx
10/08/2014 at 22:09
Not sure i can be any help but didn't want to read and run. Only you can answer if its worth it to you. We are ttc #1 and have been for 15months. If it comes to it we will definitely be doing ivf, but we haven't already got a child. If you can afford it and want it I'd say go for it, if not there are loads of stories of people who conceive against the odds so don't give up. Good luck whatever you decide to do xx
11/08/2014 at 08:56
15/09/2014 at 18:25
Can I ask if you made a decision?
We've been trying 3.5yr for our first and our first iui failed today. We have a free shot at IVF on the Nhs but I don't know if I can do this anymore. It hurts so much and no one understands. And now with it being medical procedures it's going to interfere with work which was the one place I could try not to think about it cos no one knew we were trying. I'm only 33 and they don't know why I can't conceive and I feel like I'm stopping my husband from having a child and sometimes I think I should leave him so he can have a family and not be stuck with me
05/10/2014 at 07:14
05/10/2014 at 15:35
Never give up ♥ have faith trust ♥ Were ttc for 10 years now after giving birth with my daughter we tried and tried untill last year nov, without me knowing im pregnant and they were twins, i had an mc and lost them, but here i am still trying and did not loose any hope.. just hold on its worth waiting..
Baby dust to you, and ill give you all the dust my friends gave me just dont loose hope♥
05/10/2014 at 18:13
05/10/2014 at 18:31
Rosa god has a purpose dont feel so down, dont give up ♥
11/11/2014 at 19:18
01/01/2015 at 08:25
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03/01/2015 at 03:21
I'm preggy now almost 3mos 😘 I never gave up 💝
Baby dust to all💕
17/01/2015 at 20:15
I tried for 5 years for no.2- had 1 failed iui and 2 miscarriages. I went for ivf with donor egg and it worked first time- we are so glad we kept on trying- our little girl is 20 months and the greatest joy for all of us. After conceiving no.1 so easily it was really hard to come to terms with not managing no.2. I do understand how difficult and emotional it can be. We decided only 1 shot at ivf because the cost, both emotional and financial was too high otherwise and I am so glad we took the risk. I always think you most regret the things you don't try rather than the things you do.
Lots of luck to everyone going through it now!
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