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Long term TTC & infertility
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18/04/2012 at 11:34
If anyone is interested, I went for my scan on monday - they couldn't find a heart beat. They said it could still be too small (but they saw one th week before) and that i should go back in a week. They said there is a chance but you know when you know its not going to be good news, well i just know. I haven't have any bleeding or cramping..... but have heard this can happen too.
Anyway, i just feel so desperate. On a separate note, my cat died yesterday. I just feel like this has been the worst week of my life and dont know what to do with myself.
Sorry, not looking for sympathy, just thought that sharing this might make me feel 'better'?!.....
Hope everyone is well?
20/04/2012 at 11:43
Thanks for your message - means a lot. They've called me in for a scan today as they didn't want me to wait all weekend not knowing. I've prepared myself and hubby (as much as you can) for the worst and will see what happens and report back.
20/04/2012 at 18:32
just an update for anyone who's been reading. had scan today and they confirmed my worst fears that my embryo has died and I am suffering a miscarriage.....
Devastated..... think I need join the miscarriage forum too now
Happy weekends everyone xxx
26/04/2012 at 11:20
01/05/2012 at 21:47
hey sweetie, didn't want to r& r. awwwww hunny i'm so sorry for you. you've had quite a week haven't you. i'm sending you a huge hug. like magpie says i hope you have people looking after you and do what you need to to get through this. take care lovely xxxx
03/05/2012 at 19:55
I'm so sorry to hear about your loss and I really feel for you. I've also just had IVF and went for my first scan only to be told I've had a bio chemical pregnancy (very early miscarriage). I know how lost you must be feeling right now.
Sending you a huge hug. xx
03/05/2012 at 22:33
i read your initial message on the live feed after you'd written it - should have said congrats but got sidetracked - so sorry to hear today that you were so close to what you've waited so long for, and that this has cruelly happened.
I don't have much to add as i don't know a lot about fertility problems but just couldnt read and run the only thing i have heard is that your body can be fertile after pregnancy - i know another pregnancy won't take away the grief of losing this one but i hope so much you get there again soon. xx
22/05/2012 at 12:11
Thanks all for all your supportive messages - I feel bad that I dont know all your 'personal situations' but you have all been helping me - thanks
I am now booked back in at the IVF clinic and will start treatment end of July - have to go back on the pill for 2 months (to have a couple of AFs as they dont always come naturally) which will feel odd after being off it for so long, but feeling optimistic about the treatment.
Thanks again for all your messages
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