Hey
I dont think age comes into it! Im 20 and i miscarried and i am totally fit and healthy so it is most definately NOT your age! So dont be worrying about that! My mum had me at 28 but then had my little bro when she was 40 so there is no age limit and she only had ONE ovary at that point following an ectopic pregnancy!
I too find it hard when ppl dont know about the miscarriage i couldnt tell anuyone other than parents so they told everyone else my dad FORGOT to tell my NANNA and she rang yesterday asking how i was and the baby and if id had a scan yet.....i just burst into tears and hung up my dad had to ring her back and explain i was so mad at my dad like but never mind! Ur not alone in that score hun! And im sorry but your friend seems rather hypocritical 40 nis not a cut off point and eveyones opinions are different on older mums the same as they are with younger mums.....and i think that givwen how youmg teens are starting to give birth u feel like an older mum when you have reached 30 these days i felt old at my first (and unfortunately only) pre natal class these girls were sitting in SCHOOL UNIFORMS so i feel for you older ladies!! But if shes 38 she is an older mum too you shud remind her of that! I know shes your best friend and all but she shud be showing you a bit more support! Hope i havent offended anyone by my age comments it is not intentional i am most certainly of the opinion that its the personality and nature that makes a mother not your age if you can give love to a child at 14 then go for it and the same if you can do it at 60 as long as YOU are happy and READY then stuff the world and others opinions you have us on BE and were right behing you =D
So in mummy mogs words (which mad eme giggle i may add lol) Lets get dancing (baby dancing that is


Good Luck and Baby Dust to ALL xxxxxx