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Miscarriage & pregnancy loss
09/12/2012 at 21:22
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11/12/2012 at 20:11
I understand totally what you're going through. I had a miscarriage 4 weeks ago at 7wks 6 days It was sooooo hard as I saw the heartbeat 6 days previous. It also came just after I had an ectopic pregnancy 3 months previous resulting in my right tube being removed.
Im still really teary. I cry at the strangest things. I've returned to work albeit probably too soon. I understand the longing to be a mother overtakes your life and all other things seem irrelevant. A coping mechanism that i've used is one where I know the baby just wasn't right and mother nature was being kind to us by taking it away.
But DO cry over it, it's healthy to cry. I tell people like my husband, colleagues, friends etc that im crying because im sad, broken and angry at my loss. Please do NOT hold your tears back.
Like yourself Im surrounded by pregnancy and long for it to be my turn.
Hopefully some day we will be blessed with little ones but in the meantime what doesn't kill you makes you stronger and moulds you into a better person, and maybe a better mother someday
I live in hope and wish you all the luck in the world x
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