we have all been talking about how we remeber our babies - so - i thought that i would tell you about ours.

Torbay Hospital have a Heartsease garden that is a place to go for remembering. there is a bench and flower beds and a wall with plaques on to remember our angels. We went today even though our plaque is still not ready and it is really comforting - this is the first time we have gone where we havent cried and left feeling quite positive.

I am also going to do a fundraiser at work to get some more Heartsease plants and maybe even a bench.

It makes me and hubby feel better x

Hi summer,

thats really lovely the little garden. I got personalised baubles for all my kids for our xmas tree they say their name i.e. Dylan's first christmas December 2001 etc. the one we got for lo says never forgotten our lost Angel October 2008 & i attached it to a glass angel decoration. There will always be someone missing from our house at xmas & as its such a family time i think it fitting that our baby is acknowledged every year. Made OH cry, he collected package from the PO & got a shock when he opened it he didnt know i had ordered them bless him

I am glad you are feeling more positive hon.

take care

KJ.xx

My husband bought me a links bracelet which has a small cross on it to remember my LO.
Lilou x

Hi Summer

That's really lovely that the hospital has that garden - I think all should. It's such a nice idea and gives greiving parents somewhere to go and remember their precious angels.

I'm really pleased you are feeling more positive and good luck with the fundraising - that's fantastic.

Love NN xx