Ever since having my son which i love, its made my relationhip with his dad stronger but lately and ever since we had a baby hes been really strict and mean to me, and i dont feel like having intercourse with him and i dont find him attractive anymore.

When he comes to kis me i try to get out of it anyone else feel this way?

any advice??

Went through a 'bad' stage when lo was about 6 months. But now I just put it down to tiredness and not enough time for just us. So only advise that I can think of is try to get as much help as you can in terms of babysitters and spend some time together - or just get some sleep!

El x

Hi. Sorry you're having a tough time. I know I love my other half but since having our youngest I really don't fancy doing 'it' - that has partly been down to pnd but I think I'm over the worst of that now.... however, I don't sleep very well and I think tiredness is a killer. I think you possibly need to take some time out and think how your really feel about him. As El said maybe spend some time together and try to think about how you were before you were 'mummy and daddy'. I still don't feel quite the same as I did before I had my lo but I've talked to my hubby about it and on the whole he's pretty good about taking things at my pace and letting me make the first move.

Sorry I can't be of any great help. I hope you can sort something out soon x

Hi hun. Sorry youre having a hard time. I think things change alot after having a baby, in all respects. I find it hard sometimes to get in the mood as I have hardly any time for myself. But even if you go for a drive on your own once a week or a walk, it often helps to not have baby around, like El said.
He shouldnt be being mean to you though hun xx

bless you - i can sympathise with the not in mood! think its also your mummy and daddy all the then to suddenly become a COUPLE again is hard! especially when lo starts crying when your about to 'you know what' turn off big time!!!! lol!

even when we had night off the other weekend we were at a party and i got drunk so felt sick and head was spinning - then felt rotten in the morning so we missed a chance to be US again!

xxx