Morning everyone.
So I'm laid in bed whilst Rich is downstairs with Archie thinking back to the meet on Thursday when Dxxx asked when/if everyone would be ttc again.
We are going to start (officially) trying after the wedding in August, Rich originally wanted to wait, but these past few weeks he's been talking more & more about baby number 2. Plus he's normally the one that's strict with contraception & last night & the night before he hasn't even bothered!
I still haven't had a period since October, after I came off cerazette & am thinking of going back to the doctors soon (more like Rich is pushing me to go!) We know we're not already preggers as a hpt last week was negative so who knows what's going on in there!
Another nosey cow post from Ally, what's everyone elses TTC plans, & who's joining me this year?
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Ooh how exciting for you! I bet you can't wait until August you lucky thing!

We are thinking of waiting until Finley is maybe 18 months/2yrs before trying for number 2. We really need to move house first as we are in a 2 bed house with the 2nd bedroom not really big enough for 2 little ones. We'll see how that all works out first i think. Fingers crossed for a quick BFP for you when you start 'officially' trying! x

Well we actually had a bit of an "accident" a few weeks ago - i have been meaning to sort out contreception for ages but just never got round to it - whoops!

I was seriously pooping myself as there is no way i could cope with being pregnant again now and having another baby this close together. I know it sounds selfish but i feel like i'm only starting to get my life back a bit and have nearly lost all my pregnancy weight gain. Lucky for me we were not, so will be careful from now on.

I am really happy with just Wills for the time being, i'm really enjoying him at the moment, he is really coming into himself and becoming a person. He makes me laugh so much and he amazes me each day - love him so much.

We're are going to wait and see how we feel. I am totally satisfied with just him for now but i would like him to have a sibling eventually so maybe when his is about 2 and a half - we'll see

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I'd love to give Joshie a little brother or sister but I think I've got a lot of convincing to do with the OH, but I usually get my way (ie, Josh!). We'd have to move house too, but more crucially is we couldn't afford 2 nursery bills and can't afford me to give up work. So if (when) it does happen I think I'd like Josh to be about 3, thats the gap between my big sis and me and we had loads of fun growing up.... that is of course unless my plan of winning the lottery comes in tonight and I'll persuade Rich alot sooner!!!
I loved being pregnant, giving birth and having my little miracle now, the thought of not doing it again ever saddens me, however I feel every day blessed with him so if his is my only one then that's ok too I guess...my other serious thought is to retrain as a midwife so I can still get a piece of the action so it were! :lol:

I'm sooooooooooo broody and would love another now but I love spending all my time with Sophia and I'm still finding my feet. I really want to get into teaching so if I do a placement for a year, then do the course for year and hopefully teach for a year before our next one! My mum is selling her house to us in a few years and it's a four bed so I want 3 kids now I think but we will see...it took 22 months to conceive Sophia so that's in the back of my mind! If I end up with just Sophia then my dream will have still come true with her!! xx

we probably oughtn't to wait too long cos of my endometriosis, as I had to have an op to conceive this time and wouldn't like it to come back with a vengeance inbetween and cause my pain and problems again. We do have room in our place and not such a prob paying for childcare as my mum is retiring now and can help - but I had such a bogawful pregnancy and was in hospital so much, I really need to think about Lady T and the impact on her if that happened again. I also need to be back at work for a certain length of time or they make me pay back my Mat Pay. So I think summer at the earliet - and I have to come off Cerazette too and Ally's post has got me thinking maybe it'll take a bit for my cycle to come back anyway?

if I won the lottery I'd have another one now but unfortunately we have to be sensible lol so we're gonna TTC in Jan 2012 that way when I go back to work after number 2 Gracie will get some free nursery hours which'll be a great help- I'm gonna take a whole year off next time so need to get back to work and start saving lol x

Hi Ally,

well you girlies know my story...but we're actively ttc now We got pregnant at new year and although we both were a bit like 'oops!', deep down we both knew i was ovulating (as id told Dave) and we both didnt suggest using protection when it came down to it.

Ive always, always wanted children close together and even thouugh ive had a bit of a rough ride with Alex and all of his problems (bless him) i cant help but think that it couldnt get much worse with no.2 and if ive survived this then bring it on!!

Im also very lucky that David's mum is close to retiring and has offered to look after Alex for up to 2 days a week once i go back to work and my mum said she can look after Alex for a day and a half so I wouldnt have to pay nursery fees so we can afford to have another.

My mc has only confirmed how much i want another little cherub. I'm just hoping that we have a healthy pregnancy next time. I feel apprehensive already in case anything goes wrong again.

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Well, we have ummed & ahhhed about this, but have decided on this summer, at some point. we'd like Fearne to be 18 months - 2 years when baby number 2 arrives May I think is the official TTC month! We are currently looking into buying a house, as 2 bedrooms really wont do!! Lol. How exciting

Sally, I had no idea, but am sending hugs to you flower xxx

We need a bigger house first. I think we will prob wait until the boys are 2 before ttc so they are three or there abouts when lo arrives, but i'm always changing my mind.

If i'm honest i'd ttc now, but my other half is a bit more realstic, he thinks about the reality of three young children (space, car, pushchairs etc). I know he is right, but can't help being broody, especially when family and friends seem to be popping out babies like there is no tommorrow :lol:

Id love another now but realistically I think we need to wait. I think I'll see how my flexi proposal in work goes and how we cope financially etc and then once we ate ok again maybe try then.
That is unless my lottery win comes in (which I'm sure I'm due soon!) then it'll be mission ttc!!

Hi ladies well i had my little girl taya in july who has just turned 6 months on monday, and on wednesday i had my 5 month scan with my new bubz i didnt plan it this way but i was a bit lazy with contraception lol, but now i feel like its the best thing i ever done this is baby number 5 and this has got to be the last one so im enjoying every single minute.xx