I cant believe how many of us have been in this situation recently (me included)!hehe! child birth obviously cant be that bad then! lol! on a serious note though i would actively try for number two now (lo is 9 weeks) but i am worried about peoples reactions! i want a small gap because as much as im loving being a mummy i think if i let it get past the baby stage i wouldnt do it again! i would like them to be close in age and enjoy them both growing up together. also we conceived dd in the second month but obviously im aware we might not be so lucky next time. Im just worried that people would think the next one would be a mistake or would judge us if it happened now