negative!!! thank fook for that lol!

but part of me is a little sad about it too for some reason.... is that weird? my mind has been doing overtime this last week or so thinking about how i would cope with a newborn and a 10/11month old and now that its not going to happen i cant help but feel a bit sad that i wont be going through all that stress!hmmmmm im so stupid! on the plus side i can do my stomach exercises without worrying and concentrate getting down to 9stone by my brothers wedding in october!xx

that would be my worst nightmare! x

I did a test a couple of weeks ago, I can't believe I even put myself into that situation.x

I cant believe how many of us have been in this situation recently (me included)!hehe! child birth obviously cant be that bad then! lol! on a serious note though i would actively try for number two now (lo is 9 weeks) but i am worried about peoples reactions! i want a small gap because as much as im loving being a mummy i think if i let it get past the baby stage i wouldnt do it again! i would like them to be close in age and enjoy them both growing up together. also we conceived dd in the second month but obviously im aware we might not be so lucky next time. Im just worried that people would think the next one would be a mistake or would judge us if it happened now

I can't believe I put myself in the same situation either, and how many of us have. I do know what you mean about the relief and a tad gutted though x

omg, I had one as I have had my coil fitted, those few minutes I was starting to worry but thankfully I'm not, yeah!!!! I just would never be able to cope, now I can relax n enjoy my baby, my toddler and my big lad (nearly 7) and lose the weight I so desperately need to.