Hi Girls,
Sorry about me mumping, having yet another Pavy dilema, anyway my OH suggested we get married in Vegas in May which im sooooooo excited about, but it means leaving the boys behind for 5 days... Does that sound a bitty selfish that i'l not be getting Married with my children there?? :\? xx

P.S we cant afford to take take them all we have 5 kids between us..

You could always have a party and cake when you get back- if you want to go, then you should. The main thing is the marriage, not the actual 'Wedding' isn't it?

I don't think you're being selfish - I agree with Stinton, a party when you get back would be just as much fun for the kids. I'm a bit old fashioned - a wedding is about the couple, and if you two want to go off and get married in Vegas that's brilliant! x x x

I agree it is def about the couple and it is only 5 days, you are not being selfish and getting married abroad is amazing. My hubbys family were so annoyed with us wanting to get married abroad, they wanted the whole traditional chapel with 400 people and we wanted us with our immediate family in Florida where we love and always go on holiday, they ended up loving it although his mum still says we aren't really married because we didnt do it in a chapel, sorry I went on a bit of a rant there!! LOL go and have a wonderful wedding!! You can have a party when you come home with the boys there xxxx

Hi
Don't think you are being selfish at all. I was in Vegas the other year for a wedding and tbh it's not a place for kids. Have a great wedding. Vegas is so much fun xx

Thanks girls, OH has been married before and i dont feel the need to have a big wedding so it seems ideal just to be ourselfs and enjoy a stress free wedding.. We'r having a doo when we get back, i just feel a bit sad that the boys wont be there, thinking tho i agree with legal beagle that Vegas doesn't seem a place for kids xx

ohhhhh pavs how exciting - yeah leave them behind and have some great adult time - i LOVE Vegas! x

Goooooooo! And can I be your bridesmaid ; ) Sounds fantastic and you get to spend some time just the 2 of you. I think it will be really special and you can have a party when you get back. Go & enjoy!

definatly go with your heart. If its what you want to do and you feel it will be ok with your little ones then go for it. If you would rather thay were there, perhaps you can have a service here, and have your 1st anniversary out there....

Either way, big congratulations! However you do it, its a wonderful thing and I wish you and Mr Pavs all the happiness in the world!