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14/08/2015 at 14:04
I'm 15 years old and me a my boyfriend are sexually active... We are noy trying for a baby and he has never ejaculated inside of me .... He is sure that I could not be pregnant and I believe him ,however I have a slight worry as I am 11 days late on my period... I was due on the 3rd of August now it is the 14th... For the past year my period has always been 4-7 days late,I started my period when I was 10 ,so I am 11 days late and slightly worried as I have never had this.... I am on no contraception which I should be but I'm not... I took a pregnancy test yesterday on the 13th of August and it was negative ... My period still hasn't come,I don't feel pregnant and the only sympyoMs I have are pain in my nipples? Has this ever happened to anyone else? Can somebody tell me what to do what they think? am I pregnant?
14/08/2015 at 19:28
The fact that a pregnancy test was negative is a good sign at this stage in your cycle - if it was going to be positive, you'd expect it to have showed up by now. The best advice I can give you is to have a serious talk with your boyfriend and decide on some contraception. You've had a near miss, count this as a warning. One day I'm sure you'll have a child when you're ready. But have a child to the man you love and want to spend the rest of your life with. There's plenty of time for that - make a life for yourself first. I had a mirena coil and they're great - nothing to remember to take / nothing to collect from pharmacy / nothing that gives you horrendous side effects..... And if you're undecided, use condoms for now. I may sound like your preaching mother, but I worked on an infectious diseases ward for a couple of years and you seriously wouldn't believe some of the sights I've seen - but also the most common phrase I heard "but I was sure they didn't have anything.... I didn't think this would happen...." Don't wait til it's too late, please.
Lecture over!!! Good luck hun xx
14/08/2015 at 19:33
Thank you so much teabag81 !! I'm still worried I could be pregnant but I'm going to take another test in A few days... Me and my boyfriend are each others first which makes it a lot easier for both of us,thank you for not saying sonething like "u shouldn't be having sex at this age" j love and trust him more than anything he is with me through all of this and I am going to have a think on contraception it's just my mum isn't aware i am sexually active and would never want to lie to her about contraception but it is the best thing For me as the past few days have been hell worrying if I am pregnant or not I just want to know.... Hopefully I'm not ,thank you x
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