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15/04/2013 at 17:39
15/04/2013 at 19:11
I lost my first baby too at 8 weeks...I can feel my baby moving now and it still dosnt feel real! I dont think it will sink in untill i have my baby in my arms!
Loosing a baby is devastating and it ruined the first 13 weeks of this pregnancy with constant fear of another m/c!
But once you see your baby it does seem more 'real' and can start to relax, i still worry now. If i dont feel my baby moving for a day or too i panic but then eventualy flump will give a wiggle or a kick!
As for a second m/c...i really dont know hun, we are all different
Im hear to support if you need a buddy, i know how hard those first 12 weeks can be xx
16/04/2013 at 16:55
17/04/2013 at 12:31
hello brunetter mummy i was in the exact same position that you have been in i had a miscarriage last year and was 10 week 5 days and it took 6 months to get pregnant i found out i was pregnant day my baby of miscarriage was suppost to be born hoe strange i kept looking at my tests and taking more of them as i couldent beleive it i have had some scans and baby seems healthy i have a 10 week scan tomorrow so scared as i found out i had a missed miscariage just after 10 weeks the percentage after one miscarriage is suprisingly low goes down by a little % and i dont feel pregnant im 10 week and no symtoms atall xx good luck hunny im sorry for your loss x
17/04/2013 at 12:32
17/04/2013 at 14:02
17/04/2013 at 14:38
hello and it felt weird thats the only month we actually dident try really atall and it happend on that date so maybey it was someone trying to tell me something and yes defintally made our day a little happier thank you same goes your way
i keep using tests i have stopped now lol spending lots of money on test wasent the best way haha its hard i am the same if it happend i actually cant say how i be i will just want to crawl in a corner if i can be honest i dont feel pregnant i did last time this time i dont and thank you i have saw the heart beating as i have had early scans because of miscarriages in past but hope all is good tomorrow i hope your scan goes well when your time for the scan comes good luck xx
17/04/2013 at 16:23
Congrats Brunette! It is totally understandable why you are nervous, so dont be too tough on yourself! I got the occasional spell of dizzyness around when my af was due, but my first real pregnancy symptoms were around 7 weeks with my daughter (who is almost 4) - feeling sick, constant peeing, tiredness etc.
Really hoping things are ok this time around. I mc my 2nd pregnancy in Feb & am ttc. It is positive stories like yours that keep me going x x
17/04/2013 at 22:40
18/04/2013 at 06:37
I got my bfp around my due date too lol wierd how the body works!
I didnt even consider testing at the time as it was the christmas rush and boy was i rushing....to the point i nearly fainted in primark! And it clicked....OH what if im pregnant?!!?? took a test and there it was clear as day lol
And this was the result i got! Was shocked to say the least lol
And i decided not to find out the sex, i love surprises
18/04/2013 at 19:35
hello Brunette Mummy hope your all well i had my 10 week scan and thought i would attach a picture how are you feeling
19/04/2013 at 06:28
yey hello little bean!
19/04/2013 at 11:45
Congratulations supersqish, love how your banner says baby is the size of a banana!!
Ahh babyyy thats lovely missI, are you feeling a little more at ease now? Im fine thank you had a phone call yeatersay to say I'll be sent for a scan next week so just holding on for another phone call with an appointment. How are you? Xx
19/04/2013 at 21:53
Got my scan date, after having to ring the hospital myself as my doctors surgery failed to refer me to the correct department. And they wont scan until 7 weeks so got to wait until the 2nd of may, the nerves have already kicked in so in 2 weeks I can see myself being an emotional wreck. Xx
21/04/2013 at 11:26
21/04/2013 at 12:11
21/04/2013 at 14:40
I don't mind waiting untill may 2nd for a scan as one of the midwives said they wait until then because they dont always expect to see anything before 6 weeks, plus it falls nicely as my partner already has that day off work. I wouldn't tell them im in pain if im not as last time when I had a mc they tried to force a surgery on me to 'check' for ectopic pregnancy, even though the scan was clear and I was in no pain at that point, I think it was as precaution to cover their own backs because I had a small cyst on one of my ovaries which I was later told is very normal in very early pregnancy. plus I have a pregnancy symptom now, who'd have ever thought someone would be glad to have sore nipples! just got to sit tight and be patient until my scan I guess xx
21/04/2013 at 17:21
it depends how you feel if your cramping or have worries then the best thing would be a scan i had missed miscarriage and had a feeling and i wasr right and make sure things are in place its such a ease of mind having a scan but it depends it you feel fine then wait xx
21/04/2013 at 18:11
Thanks for the advice missI if I get any cramping/pain or bleeding I'll be straight down the hospital but touch wood I feel fine so hoping and praying that in 11 days when I have my scan we see our beautiful miracle with a good strong heart beat. I've been reading so many positive stories about pregnancy after MC and it's made me feel a little calmer especially when I relate to a certain experience. We've decided to not tell anybody either until we know so I'm quite enjoying not having people fuss about asking me how I am ect.. just 11 to wait now. Hopefully it'll fly by xx
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