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03/02/2014 at 08:57
so I found out last wk that I was pregnant (8 -9wks) and got extremely excited as it would be our first baby. I started getting some pains, like period pains and feeling how I would when my periods about to arrive. I called the doctor and she said not to worry but let her know if things progressed. I then started to notice abit of bleeding and called her back, now the bleeding is nowhere near what I would experience with periods but enough to be concerned. the bleeding got heavier and I called the doctor only to get a out of hours doc that was so unhelpful so I headed to the hospital where the nurses really made me feel like I was extremely stupid for going up and basically said I was more or less wasting their time and told me everything felt ok but id need to go back for a scan this wk as for some reason I couldn't get one when I was there yesterday. I am so scared I have lost this baby, because I think I have but I don't know if im just thinking the worst? has anyone been through this? would be really grateful if I could get some advice! xx
03/02/2014 at 09:46
03/02/2014 at 09:54
well I ended up putting a pad on to see and there was a good amount which is why I went to the hospital. the out of hours doc told me the same thing, sounds like a early miscarriage. they didn't do an internal or anything so ive just to wait until Thursday for a scan. its the waiting game I cant cope with. my doctor is going to phone me as they are usually good but I just cant help think the worst.
Thanks for getting back to me Haleigh, you've made me feel better. just want to get to Thursday or even see my own doctor! glad all is well with you.xx
03/02/2014 at 10:09
03/02/2014 at 10:19
im lucky that ive a few easy days ahead of me with work I can just sit in my office and do very little. bleeding a little bit and no pain today, I feel ok today apart the sickness of course but no pain which is good! everybody is different when it comes to pregnancy suppose but we haven't told anyone yet. its literally me and my husband who know and that's it. we wanted to wait until this wkend as my husbands parents come home from holiday on wednesday and wanted to tell them at the same time! so its been really hard avoiding my parents atm! all I can do is hope I can get to Thursday without going crazy!xx
03/02/2014 at 13:18
03/02/2014 at 14:02
Hi ladies, I had a little bleeding in my first trimester and i know a couple of other people who did too. I was told it usually happens around the time your period would be due so it would be around 8 weeks or 12 weeks along. Anyways, I freaked out and convinced myself that I had lost the baby as i had cramps too. It all turned out ok, I'm now 32 weeks pregnant. I would try and relax and really take it easy - put your feet up!
As for waiting until Thursday, that's outrageous! I was seen straight away about it. I would def push for an earlier scan. Its totally unfair to make you wait that long and you need to know if everything is ok so you can relax and it will hopefully stop anything further happening.
Oh and my friend who had bleeding is due to have her baby in 2 weeks so seriously there is not always a horrible ending to these stories. I think unfortunately a lot of women who talk about this type of thing on websites have had bad experiences.
Best of luck, try and relax and i'm sure all will be fine xx
03/02/2014 at 15:00
AngWass2. your lucky you got a scan so quick, although my doctor called me today and was lovely, tried her best to reassure me and said she will phone the EPU and get me an earlier appointment. and how are u feeling now? has your bleeding stopped?xx
JoJo25 I know when I asked could I not get a earlier appointment because we were anxious the nurse looked at me like id asked could I give birth to a bloody giraffe!! its just easier to think of the negative when these happens! you've really put my mind at rest thank you.xx
03/02/2014 at 16:12
03/02/2014 at 16:30
my doctors managed to get me in for a scan on Wednesday morning first thing so at least its abit sooner. my bleedings completely stopped now so hopefully that's it stopped for good. you'll have to let me know how u get on at you scan tomorrow AngWass25.xx
04/02/2014 at 20:31
Just wanted to let you know that I had my scan today and baby is fine and measuring exactly as it should be I saw the heart beating away and it was tucked very nicely away on my left side, quite low down! Hope your scan goes well tomorrow....please let us know. She had a good look around and couldn't find any reason why the bleeding might be happening but just said it is quite normal in early pregnancies to have some bleeding.
I have been a little stressed with work since Thursday so maybe that is the reason why I started spotting on Friday. I now feel relaxed and have had no spotting since first thing this morning xx
05/02/2014 at 14:10
Hi AngWass2 so glad everything went well so happy for u!
my scan went good, everything is fine baby is growing well and seen the heartbeating too! magical feeling, im the same no reason for the bleeding but she just said to take it easy over the next few wks and to go back again in a few for another scan! feel like I can breathe a huge sigh of relief now! so going to tell our parents and brothers/sisters tonight now we've got good news! so pleased evrythings ok and going along as it should be!xx
05/02/2014 at 15:13
Ah that is brill news Jilly....glad everything is going well for you too! I am still having bleeding on and off and although I know everything is good it still makes you panic and it's not normal. Are you still having any?
I do feel a million times better though after seeing the little heartbeat x
05/02/2014 at 16:21
no my bleeding stop yesterday and haven't had any since but at least I know if it comes back not to worry, well as much as I did!!! whats your due date then? they told me around the 9th-ish of September! I know seeing a little flicker on the screen is definetly reassuring! although I feel completely awful today! banging sore head and just feeling completely rotten!!xx
05/02/2014 at 16:27
05/02/2014 at 16:39
21st of feb 4days after my birthday so it'll be a nice late present to see the little one and i'll be 12+3! lol wow we are close together! I cant wait til that scan, just to see the difference in size and everything!xx
05/02/2014 at 16:52
So pleased all was well with your scans ladies , very reassuring to see the heartbeat isn't it , I've read that the risk of mc goes down dramatically after seeing the heartbeat , had our 20 week scan yesterday , n even now I worry n check the toilet tissue nearly every time , hope you're managing to take it easy , lots of baby dust being sent your way x x
05/02/2014 at 16:56
thank you evemum24! it just amazing seeing that little heartbeat, it just takes all the anxiety away just to know all is well in there! hope your taking it easy too!! xxx
05/02/2014 at 18:32
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