Hi! Am 20 weeks pregnant, have a 21 month old and have just asked my partner to leave. I'm fed up of being treated like a door mat, being spoken down to and want to be happy. He's stormed out and dont know where he is now. It already breaks my heart to hear my little one calling for his daddy. Have I done the right thing?

hun if you werent happy then whats the point of being in a relationship were you are miserable, as long as he has a relationship with his kids thats what matters, your son will still see his daddy. how do you feel, do you think youve done the right thing for you.

Who knows just yet? I'm feeling very calm though. Really want it to work between us, but just dont know if it can.

Hiya.
What a horrible and stressful time you must be having at the moment, I can understand how little one calling for Daddy can tug at the heartstrings.

Above everything the most important thing is the happiness of you and your children. I am a firm believer in happy parent = happy child.

If this is the right thing for you then in the long run it will be worth it. Either way, your other half now knows that you are unhappy with the way you are being treated and that one way or another it's stopping now.

Fingers crossed for you, keep up posted.
Tracey
xx