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21/06/2016 at 19:47
I don't want the typicaL replies. 'It's bad for you and baby' ect believe me I know I quite at 5 weeks I'm not 34+3.
Ive had half a fag yesterday. i know its wrong but I would prefer advice as to how to handle stress. It's getting out of control (the stress) I've got no friends no family. My partner just wants to argue and disagree. His dog is peeing all around our house (he is toilet trained apprently) his ex is driving me nuts. we've just moved in this house 5 weeks ago (dogs nuetered he isn't scenting he's been like it forever)
having lots of work done to the house.. Everything is getting on top of me. I've been so paranoid all through this pregnancy
Babys us hardly moved today and I'm sure stress has something to do with it as whenever I was stressed before (not on this level) she wouldn't move more hours. I'm so scared. Please be nice.
21/06/2016 at 19:48
Spelling horrendous sorry.
I quit at 5 weeks I'm NOW 34+3
21/06/2016 at 20:02
Firstly i'm sorry to hear you're having a hard time of it. But you know what, in the grand scheme of things, half a cigarette isn't the end of the world! You've done amazingly well quitting, and just because you had that half doesn't mean you have to start smoking again. As an ex smoker i get it.
So if stress is the issue, (and a dog crapping all over the new house is awful - can you keep the dog outside during the day?) you gotta try and come up with something that you enjoy - can you get into a new boxset on the tele (lose yourself in something?). Maybe baking?
What about redecorating the house - throw yourself in to that?
Feel free to get it off your chest here though - it might help.
And have a cold glass of coke - might make the baby wriggle for you.
21/06/2016 at 20:17
Thank you for the reply. And after them few puffs the guilt was horrendous so no I highly doubt I'll be smoking again! Lol
the dog is a menace hes found escape routes (we've now blocked up) ect but have builders putting in patio doors tomorrow so after this weekend he will be going out side more hours of the day! Lol
just cant wait till my baby is here, all safe :)
ive had a lil lay down and she started wriggling again which is a weight off my shoulders.
Thank you you for positive and helpful reply X
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