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08/03/2014 at 21:38
08/03/2014 at 21:45
Bless u hun so sorry bout ur grandad. His dad sounds just like mine complete piss taker. Ur oh should b thinkin bout u chick n supporting u. U have every right to b pissed off IMO x
13/03/2014 at 05:51
awww hunni, only just seen this post, so so sorry about your grandad, you're not being a bitch at all. and sorry if i sound like I'm being one but if your dh isnt being sensitive to you losing your grandad why the hell should you be sensitive about his dad wanting to stay at yours??? you want time to grieve and support from dh and not to be lumbered with his "woe is me lets get drunk"routine. put your foot down hunni and tell dh what he is doing is not on and i he has a brother (you said he was drinking with his other son in the pub) tell him to stay there and use his house as a doss house. its not what you nee while you're pg hunni xxxxxx
13/03/2014 at 11:33
Haliegh, I'm sorry to hear about your Grandad. I hope you feel a bit better today and that your Mum is ok.
I think you are within your rights to feel fed up and down - You have had a bereavement and albeit for your best interests, you have been excluded from saying your goodbyes. To top it off, you have your OH piling his Dad's rubbish onto you when you could really do without it.
If you get chance, I would tell your OH exactly how you feel and perhaps he will realise. I know sometimes, people don't think about others feelings because it just doesn't occur to them - perhaps because you didnt see your Grandad your OH thinks you are ok?
Hope you feel a bit better today xxx
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