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21/07/2013 at 10:45
21/07/2013 at 13:16
if i was you i would take her to the hospital and they will look in her cervix ect and can tell you exactly whats going on my friend had a burst cyst and she collasped its suppost be worst pain ever so if she wasent doubled in pain it proably wasent a cyst could be a old period as you can have a bleed sometime outside the sac from a old period what got stopped it either comes out or asbored and they said that should be pinky or browny get her checked out for hers and baby sake
21/07/2013 at 18:59
Thanks, we're going on Tuesday. They said they can't see us until then. I'm not sure my work will let me go, but if I can't she'll be on her own and I can't bear to send her alone.
f*** it, this is more important.
21/07/2013 at 20:07
Sod work. You're entitled to this time off x
21/07/2013 at 21:02
I had a burst ovarian cyst 4 weeks ago, I felt a strange pop in my lower abdomen (kind of like a gas bubble popping) after picking up dd. the pain wasnt excruciating when it burst, but after it had burst my abdomen filled up with fluid and blood and that pain was so severe dh had to call an ambulance and drs rushed me into surgery thinking I had appendicitis! Only after the surgery they told me that I'd had a burst cyst and also retrograde menstruation. (sorry if tmi at any point) if your wife hasnt had any more bleeding or leakage since then keep your hopes up and just see how it goes on tuesday.
Also while I was pregnant with dd I had fluid and blood gush, not loads of it but enough to scare me. Doctor said it was cervical fluid forced out by pressure from the expanding womb, small bleeds are common during pregnancy and that while it may look like a lot of blood, because it's mixed with fluid its probably not as much as it seems.
Not sure whether any of that will put your mind at ease at all, just thought i'd share experience in similar situation. All the best for you, your wife and little bean. xx
21/07/2013 at 21:49
Thanks BM, that sound like what it could be! It wasn't painful, it just scared the hell out of us both. Oh my god I hope that's all it was and we get a positive scan on tuesday!
21/07/2013 at 21:59
I've got absolutely everything crossed for you, and hope you get some brilliant news! Run your wife a nice warm bath, the more relaxed she is the more relaxed little bean will be. Good luck for tuesday, and whether good news or bad, never give up hope for the future. xx
21/07/2013 at 22:25
Aww thanks! You're all so great. I'm so glad I joined this forum it's been such a help to me.
Roll on Tuesday and I'll keep thinking positive x
21/07/2013 at 22:34
I've also found this one very supportive, dh refuses to discuss anything other than a positive test result atm. It's so annoying! Especially considering af is now almost 7 days late and im not very hopeful as have already had 2bfns. He just accused me of being pessimistic and got the hump with me! Maybe its his way of dealing with possible disappointing news again, who knows. Its great to get loads of support on here when im not getting so much at home atm x
22/07/2013 at 07:50
you are in our prayers everything is going to be alright tomorrow, tell you wife not to stress she must relax. we are all praying for a sticky bean we want both of you to hold your joy next year
22/07/2013 at 16:42
Done another HPT today and it was significantly lighter
22/07/2013 at 18:02
Don't go on the test result mate mine was very light and baby was fine. Fx for u tomoz
23/07/2013 at 09:53
Goos luck for today d2bd, fingers crossed for you xx
23/07/2013 at 12:48
How did it all go? X
25/07/2013 at 07:50
Iv just been reading up on whats going on, i hope all is well?
As you know from my other posts what 8 went through and your suport was brill the advice you gave was spot on, iv recovered well from my m/c and we have all ready started TTC again and hoping for a good out come this time.
I do hope all is ok with u and your misses xxx
26/07/2013 at 06:47
I updated my "lost 2nd bean" and "fell so helpless" threads the other day after the scan on Tuesday but I guess they've dropped down the pages since then.
I feel so stupid telling everyone that we thought we'd lost this one but just couldn't think all was ok after what happened to my wife on Friday with the heavy bleed.
Turns out, we have a heartbeat! She's now 6w 2d and there's a "very strong" Heat pumping away- what a feeling to see that! However, there is a second sac with a big bleed in it, which docs said could and hopefully will just disintegrate or reabsorb. Or it could come out by itself but the risk is if it gets bigger and comes out that it takes our little fluttering bean out with it on the way.
We're booked in for another reassurance scan around the 8th August but we're to go straight back if there's anymore bleeding.
Its good to hear from you and I'm glad I could help in a small way- I hope you have some better luck really soon, you all deserve to be happy, there are some truly amazing women in here. Xx
26/07/2013 at 07:51
My heart sank when i started to read this post then Boom heartbeat and i started to smile!
Thats one sticky little bean im so happy for you and your misses xx
I hope the second sac is gone but your next scan and is just reabsorbed leaving your little bean to grow and flurish
I really am so happy for you guys its some brill news whoop whoop xx
Testing starts again for me next week...fingers crossed il get my sticky bean soon
26/07/2013 at 08:21
Sorry to scare you!
I'll be keeping everything crossed for you! Let us know how you get on x
26/07/2013 at 08:51
Will do i just so happy you got to see a little heartbeat its magical and i know il see one again if not now thats cool im fine with it, just keeping my fingers crossed i get my possitive out come by the end of the year xx
26/07/2013 at 09:23
Fx for happy news all around xx
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