Hi girls well it is long overdue me finding the time to come on here. I know some have been asking for me and thank you it means so much.

Things are still the way they were - we are separated, he is still with her but I have a gorgeous baby girl and my handsome 4yr old. Add to the mix that my dad died four weeks ago and it looks like I am going to be arguing with his partner about his will (she is executor and won't activate will) then I really can't take much more but ho hum what doesn't kill you makes you stronger and all that.

I am going to try and get on here more so will hopefully get to talk to you all again

Hi Scooby. good to see you back. Sorry to hear about your dad passing away, and that things are complicated. It's quiet today because of the bank holiday. hopefully more people will log on tomorrow and welcome you back.

Hi, glad to see you back!

Thanks girls xxx

Hi Scooby, good to see you back. Sorry you're having a hard time. I hope everything gets resolved with your dad's partner

Oh course we remember you How are things going with the baby I.e. does he see her regularly?

Nice to 'see' you scooby! Sorry you've not had a great time lately x

Yeah he sees F for a few hours a couple of days a week but I won't let him have her overnight. I am still breastfeeding at night and to be honest he hasn't really established a relationship with her yet - not properly anyway. It has only been over the past two months maybe that he has actually actively asked to see her. On saying that it is only when it fits in with his busy social life lol

Hi scooby, of course we remember you! I'm sorry to hear about your dad. As you say - what doesn't kill you makes you stronger and you will get through this. You know where we are if you need us or just want to rant.

Rct xx

Aww, missed you Scooby. Welcome back x

Welcome back Scooby! I'm so sorry to hear of your loss, I hope the issue regarding the will is resolved very soon. Hope your little ones are well x

Nice to see you back here again. your two certainly look very happy anyway, can't believe how much f has grown. Im always here or on fb if you ever want to chat x

Nice to have you back Scooby.

Sorry for your loss.

sorry to hear about your dad x

welcome back scoby, sorry to hear of your loss hope the issues are resolved swiftly.

Lovely to see you again, but I'm so sorry to hear of the loss of your Dad, sending you big hugs xx

Nice to 'see' you again Scooby. Sorry for your loss, hope the will issues get resolved soon xx

Lovely to see you back. So sorry about your loss though x

Welcome back scooby. Sorry about your dad x

Hi Scooby, sorry to hear about your dad. I hope things start to look up for you soon.