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19/09/2016 at 16:46
hi ladies I'm new to this, I'm trying to get a better understanding of my dates etc- i don't want anyone to judge me so I'm going to put it out there now,
im mid 20s pregnant :) over the moon Been waiting for years with my partner. Our due date is 20/03/17
me and my partner split may time 2016 and I had a one night stand with guy A , on June 1st 2016( didnt use protection for a while, then used protection, he did his bit) then had sex again after a hour unprotected but didn't cum.
Me and my partner(Guy B) started working things out etc after this around the 4th-5th june, and was having intercourse from then onwards and are now thankfully rekindling our relationship of 6 years. I then had a period on the 20/6/16 ( can't remember how long for, and can't seem to think when periods were prior to this) I then did a pregnancy test on monday 18th July 2016 and it was negative, i tested again 20th July 2016 and was positive, ( over the moon and extatic) i did a clear blue test and told me i was(2-3weeks pregnant) i had some problems So went for an emergency scan on 25th/7/16 everything was fine, and the sonogram lady said I was 5 weeks pregnant giving us a due date of 27/3/17 , I then went for my 12week scan on 12/9/16 and she said I'm 13 weeks pregnant Giving us now a date of 20/3/17 I'm confused to know if it's guy As or guy Bs baby? when i do online calculators etc irs givinf me doffernet dates that dont add up and saying to have a due date of 20/3/17 i should have had a period on the 12th or 13th of june- but i didnt.
please can someone help me?
thank you x
19/09/2016 at 16:58
from the dates you've said I'd say it's more likely guy b's...your partner :-)
if it was guy a's I would have thought you'd be a few weeks further along.
and the fact you had a period on 20th June just makes it even less likely to be guy a's :-)
19/09/2016 at 17:12
Thank you so much for replying and not being judgemental:) I wrote a similar post on another site and and got A lot of bad comments, a woman said- my period on the 20th June could have been a show, but I can't seem to remeber when my periods were before to know if around that date is normal for me to have a period xxx
19/09/2016 at 20:59
I agree. Seems to me like it is much more likely your partner's.
19/09/2016 at 22:54
I say your partners as I found at my scan I was put forward a week yet I knew when I ovulates as I used ovulation kits and took my temperature so it's definately not uncommon to be put forward x
19/09/2016 at 23:13
Sounds like it would be guy b to me don't forget that when they say 12 weeks for example it's actually roughly 10 weeks from the actual conception. X
02/10/2016 at 22:17
i would definitely agree with it being your partners! due to a few silly fall outs me and my partner only dtd once in the month I caught on so know exactly when our due date is although at 12 week scan they put us back a week and ever since baby has measured a week big midwife agrees with me on my dates although won't get changed on my notes unless more than 2 weeks different she also said that if they measure baby even a millimetre wrong at 12 week scan it can alter your dates by a full week! hope that helps a little xx
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