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26/08/2014 at 14:27
26/08/2014 at 14:39
I was nominated and i donated as that's technically how it's supposed to work. Alternately, you could always do it with luke warm water and with only those who know you're pregnant around you?
26/08/2014 at 14:43
It's going to be a group thing though, so either I have to sit out completely and come up with a good reason for doing so, or I have to do it at the same time and in the same way as everyone else.
26/08/2014 at 14:46
I'd just tell them no and refuse to do it but I'm an unsociable so and so !
26/08/2014 at 14:53
I know lots of pregnant people that have done it... But personally I wouldn't do it... Might just be my history but I am not putting myself in situations that can be avoided :)... I am not sure what you could come up with to get out of it without just saying no and giving no reason.
26/08/2014 at 15:24
I have no idea if it is or isn't OK but I do know I will not be doing it even if I get nominated. I hate that sort of thing but I am a bit miserable so I'd just refuse and say no. If I agree with the charity I may donate some money anyway if not I won't bother!
26/08/2014 at 15:32
Say you're ill on the day you are all meant to do it with short notice so they go ahead and just say you'll donate instead?
26/08/2014 at 15:41
I'm sure it's probably fine, other than risking catching a cold or something, but I'd refuse to do it pregnant or not. Call me miserable or whatever but I just don't like things like this. I know it's doing good by raising money but there's just something about it all that I don't like.
26/08/2014 at 15:45
I wouldn't do it if I was nominated personally. I'd just ignore it. It's the fact that it's part of an organised social event that we're doing, so if I sit out due to "illness" (which would probably be the most believable excuse), I have to miss the social as well!
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