Pregnancy & Birth Clubs <
17/01/2016 at 20:17
I'm 22 and have just found out I'm 5 weeks pregnant.
theres so much going through my mind right now.. I just want to be excited but am struggling to get past the point of shock!
the situation with the baby's father is also a complicated one. I work with him & everything is so up & down!
scared girl right here..
18/01/2016 at 15:35
Im 21 and 23+3weeks pregnant.
You should be feeling exitment at a time like this . Have you tried talking to the babys father? You should really talk to him or a close friend/family member about your worries.
All the best :)
That's such a shame what are your worries..
if it makes you feel better I'm s riot too x
18/01/2016 at 19:32
Today is a new day.. I am excited I just have points of absolute panic and don't know how to deal with it!
I worry if I'll be a good enough mum, but I shouldn't I know it's something I've always wanted. The politics in work when they find out I'm pregnant will be another story :-( I think that's mainly the cause of my worries...
18/01/2016 at 20:07
Everyone has a worry when they first find out there pregnant. You shouldn't worry about being a good enough mom, I'm sure you would be:) & if it's something youve always wanted ,things are just going to get better.
I am a first time mom to be as well. Just look forward. It's the best thing that can possibly happen, and don't worry what others think. If you get a reaction that puts you down just ignore them and rise above it. There the people you don't need anyway.
Like the reaction I had off my so called "best friend" was "what are you going to do, are you going to keep it" I actually couldn't belive it. Let's just say she is no longer a friend..
18/01/2016 at 20:44
Thankyou for your reply!
I really do just need to look forward and focus on me & Bean.. It'll all work out I hope!
aw you are? Exciting stuff 😍 My best friend has been very supportive! Couldn't do it without her..
hope all goes well for you xx
19/01/2016 at 09:52
Bethr I can't believe your friend said that I hope your ok!?
how many weeks are you both!?
like you guys I'll be a first time mum I'm petrified but can we all try get through it together? Don't let anything stress you chlo especislly work!!!!xx
19/01/2016 at 10:32
Yes let's! I like this plan. I'm glad I've come on here it's made me feel so much more relaxed about the situation.. Seeing a lot of people feel the same as me!
I'm around 5-6 weeks. Waiting for a midwife call.
how far gone are you guys?
oh I know the politics in my work around me & the baby's dads relationship is crazy enough already.. I'm about to drop another bombshell👀 Haha
19/01/2016 at 22:51
Closmith- I'm all good, don't need that type in my life anyways :) she knew me and my partner had been trying for months aswell. She's always been the jelous type. As in what you've got I've got 10× better kind of friend...
I'm 23+4 Weeks how about you Closmith?
Chloe just show to them in work that your the happiest you can be with your little one growing inside you, you are all that matters during your pregnancy and your little one. Hope all goes well when you tell them. You'll be sure to hear off the midwife in the next week or two for your booking appointment at 12 weeks. Exiting times ahead! :)
I'm glad I've joined this aswell. Hearing from those who are expecting makes me feel like I'm not alone as I've been off work due to my medication and sickness it's nice to hear from everyone :)
24/01/2016 at 22:21
This is so confusing with the Chloe's lololol
chloepee everything happens for a reason there will be good to come out of it xx
bether it's sad you've lost a friend but good you know what she's like!! Jealousy is the worst!!!!
hope you've all had a great weekend xx
27/01/2016 at 00:10
I found out I was pregnant when I had only been with my partner for 2 months, & i was 6 weeks pregnant! I was far from excited. To be honest I was devastated, and after about a week I thought "I can be a mummy!"
I cried at my first scan, cos I just couldn't believe I was gonna be a mum, then on the sexing scan I was having a little boy :) & when I gave birth is a moment you can't even describe.. I cried my eyes out when they passed me over my baby.
what I'm trying to say is, think long and hard, but you do what's best for YOU, no one else. You're gonna be the one responsible and looking after the baby. but if I'm honest, it's actually not as hard as what people made out! You'll never love anything like your baby, so you do what's best for YOU. it is scary when you first find out, but what's meant to be will be xx
27/01/2016 at 09:25
Reading your reply Don K has clarified my decision even more.. An abortion would never be an option in my mind, I made my bed & now I have to lie in it.. It's one I'm willing to lie in with or without (probably without) the baby's father! :-)
..my situation is similar to yours, a short time with someone & I wasn't careful so caught. This someone actually cheated on his wife (claimed to me they were separated) and is now begging for a paternity test.. Which is also fine by me as I know the truth so they can sort that one out between themSelves. However, if they think they're having an easy ride at the end of this after doubting me so early on, they have another thing coming!
i just can't wait for it to be me & my baby! I have the most supportive friends & I believe everything happens for a reason. Something life changing, but very good is going to come out of this :-)
27/01/2016 at 10:41
Chloe it takes two to tango and you've held your hands up and sound like you'll be a great mum. It's meant to be!
he shoukdbt he giving you so much grief x
27/01/2016 at 11:15
his wife actually happened to type my Instagram username (which happens to be this username too) in to google last Thursday & obviously found all of the conversations I've been having with you guys on here and felt it was within her rights to start telling people my news, brilliant isn't it!
yourw right, compulsive liars never get anywhere! I just want time to pass now so I can get my first scan. Thinking of paying for an early one next week just to reassure myself 😁 Exciting times ahead for me & bean! Xx
27/01/2016 at 11:24
Omg drama rama lolol my surname isn't smith btw I was scared that happened to me!!!!!!
is his wife still with him? Did she find out you were pregnant through this site?
27/01/2016 at 11:50
Absolute pointless drama. Ain't worth my time no more.
yeah they kissed & made up😂 once a cheat, always a cheat!
yeah she typed chlooepee in to google and obviously all this came up!
27/01/2016 at 15:48
Haha serves her right. Let her spread the news shes the one that looks like a fool as shes the one married to the daddy..
he's done it once and it will be done again for sure. Yes it takes two to tango. But he's the married man. & if he made out hes not with her. Hes clearly not happy..
You look forward to the future You and your little one! xxx
27/01/2016 at 17:43
It was horrible when I had to tell the lad i had been for a short space of time I was pregnant, & he wasn't supportive at all! All throughout my pregnancy he just wasn't interested. But as soon as he saw my Son he cried and he's the best dad to my little boy. 3 years on we're still together, when no one thought we would be as I fell pregnant within a month of being with him.
if the father isn't around you can do it on your own! To be honest its easier doing it on your own I think as u have your own routine etc.
good luck & I hope it all works out for you xx
27/01/2016 at 17:46
i can't believe she's done that. Oh well, you're gonna Have your little bundle of joy soon so let her sort her issues out with the childs father xx
27/01/2016 at 18:30
What I meant by it takes two to tango was that he's not me innocent hope you didn't take it the wrong way xx
Continues below ad
with our partner Childcare.co.uk
Nice to see you! Please do nose around, sign up and join in.