My parents have been separeted since when i was 6 and so my step parents are just like an extra mum and dad to me, lately ive heard from people that my stepmum has been talking about me behind my back, about silly things, but i am soo soo very hurt by this. I cant even say anything because i would never do that to the people who have told me. I dont even want to go near her house but i have two young sisters who i adore more than anything in the world. I just dont understand why she's doing this to me..... sorry to ramble on but i cant say to my o/h as he'd be really angry.

Jstar xxx

would it be worth speaking direct to your step mum and sking her whather there is any truth in what you've been told, and see what she says from there, just explain that your upset by what you've heard and need to know .

Best of luck.

Marie

I really wish i could, the person who told me means alot to me, i know for sure that its true, i cant do that to the person who told me. im just so hurt, she isnt even interested in me anymore, since i became pregnant.

It's a shame isn't it, that this as suddenly happened!.

Could it be a bit of jealousy maybe? (on your step mum's side)

[Modified by: TTC2009 on June 08, 2009 01:13 PM]

I think so, as she never wanted me to get pregnant in the first place, she just isnt interested in me, i need to learn to accept it and learn to not let it bother me.

How old are your step sisters??
Could this be the reason and your the first to have a baby then

It's sad that she never wanted you to get pregnant and for that reason i think sadly your going to have to learn that from now on things with her are going to be a lot different to before. It's awful but jealousy makes people behave in some horrible ways.

I know, thanks for replying tp me,i just needed to get this off my chest. They're 11 and 8. my stepmum is young and so she would have loved another child but my dads nearly 50 now, so do i just put a face on and pretend she hasnt hurt me as i cant say anything?

Jstar x