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Intimacy Issues - details!

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  • Curlygal
    Curlygal

    17/07/2009 at 04:56

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    Morning All

    Just wondering if anyone else has had or having this?

    OH and I have always had a very healthy sex life, full of foreplay and lots of kissing.

    Well since I have started to show oh has been finishing "earlier" than normal (or I'd like!) and it said its because he is thinking about the baby. He never instigates sex anymore and its very rare we have a snog. We have spoken about it and he knows I am sensitive and knows I think its because he doesnt love me anymore but he soon puts me right and says he does and that he still fancies me so its not that. He did say it doesnt feel as intimate now as none of the position we have to do now are face to face, as we find it difficult with him on top (feels weird) and we end up spooing or doggy. :roll:

    Anyone else had this? doesnt help I am at my "randy" stage!!!

    Thanks chicks!

    Curly x
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  • Curlygal
    Curlygal

    17/07/2009 at 05:25

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    Thanks SB!

    Yeah tried being on top but feels awkward to bend forward to kiss OH!

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  • Tigger2
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    17/07/2009 at 05:38

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    Me and OH are also less 'active' at the moment. I'm sure it's just because it's a little strange and for a while it was a bit uncomfortable for me so I think he's very sensitive to that.
    I am in no doubt your OH still loves u and fancy you but I think it can be a bit strange for them to get used to. Since about 20wks our lovelife has inproved but still quieter than it was pre-pregnancy, in fairness I am asleep by 9pm most nights so not much chance of action for my poor man.

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  • Roppa77
    Roppa77

    17/07/2009 at 05:49

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    We've not really been very intimate at all during this pregnancy but it really hasn't bothered me to be honest. We probably did it once a week until about 30 weeks but haven't done anything for about a month now. We haven't discussed it but think we're both happy to wait now until I'm term as we''re both concerned about an early labour.

    Will be jumping on him in 3 weeks when I'm term though to help move labour along! lol

    Kirsty xxx
    34 wks
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  • rebecca1975
    rebecca1975

    17/07/2009 at 07:58

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    I have been more randy not that I wasn't before but more so being pregnant I just love it all. On top is actually better now than it was before for some reason, sometimes when bending forward for kissing it pops out but it is still good, did doggy the other day thats not one we do very often but it was good all but abit quick though. Missionary is still good but you need to learn to adapt the position slightly. I was very small and slight to start with so hubby has never been able to put his wait on me anyway. As bump gets bigger either put your hands on it that helps or get hubby to lean more to one side. It is still just as good. We can't do spooning it don't work!

    33+4



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