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29/04/2014 at 10:55
Im kinda feeling a bit worried that some thing is wrong with me.
please dont hate me for what im about to write...
So as many of you know i had 2 m/c last year one in july at 6-8 weeks and one in december 8-10 weeks.
I fell again in feb and im now 14 weeks today, iv had my 12 week scan and all was well but im finding it hard to enjoy my pregnancy, i know today is the first day of my 2nd trimester and that alone is fab, but i dont want to connect with bump for the fear it will go wrong again.
this then makes me feel very bad! im so happy to be pregnant again, and it means the world to me that my son will have a brother or sister im just so scarred!
has anyone else felt like this and does it get better in time or do you think i should talk to the midwife or doctors?
29/04/2014 at 11:05
29/04/2014 at 11:47
thank you for replying good luck with your scan i think once iv had my 20 week scan i know it will all be ok, its just getting through the next 6 weeks, iv just been looking online at privet scans from 16 weeks thought i might have a chat to the other half see how he feels about having one done at around 17 weeks, i just feel kinda bad for not wanting to get attached or close so to speak to little bump.
i think maybe il call the midwifes see what they say, im just worried they little laugh me off as being silly xx
29/04/2014 at 14:45
29/04/2014 at 15:08
29/04/2014 at 20:03
I hope so to samantha xx
Cheers demii i do feel like iv put up this wall so far, my partner is keen to go shopping for baby items i just dont want to, iv just hit 2nd trimester so hoping things get a bit better
29/04/2014 at 20:31
I felt the same Sarah. I found it hard to bond with the bump for the first 12 weeks because I was worried about the scan due to past history. I also worried about the 20 week scan but not as much as I worried about the very first scan. I bonded with the bump and our little boy and I love it more than anything in this world. Xxx
29/04/2014 at 21:37
I hope im the same judy
i want to bond with him, iv started using the stretch mark cream of an evening now so doing some hands on contact with the huge bump lol i know all is ok, iv seen and listened to his heart beat and im so sure i can feel him moving just cant shake this feeling that im going to have it all taken away from me again, maybe once i start shopping and having baby items around me il feel better, im so happy to have got this far and i know its all in my head lol xx
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