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03/02/2016 at 12:44
Hi all hope you ladies are well
I need some advise.... I am almost three months pregnant and this is our first baby. Problem I have is every since I have learnt I am pregnant I just don't have the energy to dress up anymore. I cant even eat and feeling low and upset most nights and days. Problem I have although I am carrying my husbands baby and we made a promise in the past where we go through everything together. I just feel its just me under going through this. don't take me wrong he does quench my cravings etc.... but when it comes to housework, cooking, or anything he just moans and winjes and says I don't do anything when I do and I am very exhausted being in early trimester. He doesn't take me out anymore and even at night time he doesn't comfort me when I am in pain or wake him up.... he gets all grumpy but does say if I need anything... no I don't but I want cuddles of comfort as im feeling very sensitive. He says to me I pretend on everything for attention then I argued back so im pretending on this pregnancy the am I? he doesn't seem to understand anything. I sometimes feel im on my own. My mother in law is supportive she cooks for me and allows me to rest (I live with the inlaws) but husband seems to be more bothered about stretch marks and baby weight (as he did say in the past) I told him my body wont be the same but I will try. I feel so angry because I got married, moved houses to live with him left my family, changed my surname, having his baby and under going this pregnancy (feel alone) now the baby will bear his name. I just feel so low and upset I old him how I felt and he said im just too much. I feel so upset and unsure if I am depressed. At night time I am uncomfortable so I sometimes take abit of his space in bed which he hates. He never calls me at work and asks how I am feeling etc... Im really sorry for this essay but I really don't know what to do :( im thinking of talking to the doctors to help me. Please am I alone?
03/02/2016 at 14:21
Aww bless ya congrats on your pregnancy I think it's very normal I was like that with my first very emotional and felt lonely even though husband was there i think sometimes men get scared aswell and don't want to talk big changes for both of you try to rest and relax and enjoy your pregnancy
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