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11/05/2014 at 13:18
Just seen someone wrote on someone on my FB's wall -
They have posted about the birth and baby's name's.. Mother hasn't been on fb or written anything about labour!
It's awful isn't it!?
11/05/2014 at 13:57
I just wonder why these people don't think / realise why they perhaps shouldn't put anything?
They're obviously oblivious to what they are doing or they wouldn't do it (I think / hope!).
11/05/2014 at 13:58
I hope so too... But it's a shame now I know the sex name etc without her telling us..
11/05/2014 at 14:07
Do you think the mothers planned it that way - i.e. asked whoever has done it to do so for them?
If not, thats soooo bad!
11/05/2014 at 14:18
Well shes been quite active on FB recently.. and it has not time or weight so I would of thought not?
11/05/2014 at 15:34
Winds me up! One of my friends posted a 'Good luck with your C-section tomorrow!!' post on another friend's wall. I knew about it because we were due a week apart, but FacebookLand didn't and I felt sorry for my pregnant friend (and she was upset but too sweet to say owt).
11/05/2014 at 15:42
Its really annoying!
I am hoping to keep it off fb until baby is here..but I know I would be really upset if anyone did it to me!
11/05/2014 at 16:00
This really annoys me. I'd like to think it's because the people have absolutely no brains and they aren't actually doing it out of badness.
11/05/2014 at 16:05
In the case I mentioned it's pretty likely it was done to make a point (long story), which meant it irked me more! Private messaging good luck means just as much to the recipient but keeps it discreet. I don't even post birthday messages on someone's wall unless their birthday is logged on Facebook, just in case!! :)
11/05/2014 at 16:16
To be honest if you are on a social media site and have published your pregnancy on there then I think it's either sensible to lock your wall so no one posts the news or tell people when you text/call there is to be no mention until the parents post. I locked my wall and everyone I text knew to keep quiet. If people don't have kids especially they won't realise the importance of it being the parents news.
11/05/2014 at 16:32
Surely it's just common sense lol...?
11/05/2014 at 17:54
11/05/2014 at 18:05
Jeez....That's awful :(
11/05/2014 at 18:47
She's now just done a post about Him and a picture...
11/05/2014 at 18:59
I think you should say something!
It's not her news to share I'd be furious!
11/05/2014 at 19:02
Oh yes! LLL you've reminded me. My sis had twins. Her husband's brother posted the news on his wall, but tagged them, so we all saw it. I couldn't help myself and posted 'good job they didn't want to make their big announcement themselves!' People in his family liked my comment. Very strange!
11/05/2014 at 19:32
I plan to lock my wall or maybe even delete Facebook but my in laws are on Facebook & there are definately people who would put it on Facebook to be seen as the first in the know & neither are they approachable. A friends husband actually checked into the hospital on Facebook the day her c section was booked. Winker
11/05/2014 at 19:52
Quite a few ladies I know have posted a disclaimer on their facebook page in the run up to due date literally stating 'do not post anything to my wall - it's our news to announce' etc etc - seems such a shame that people need to be told that and common sense doesn't prevail!
11/05/2014 at 20:15
It's a shame people don't think about things like this. I didn't realise that you could block your wall so no one can post on it, definitely something I will look into.
11/05/2014 at 20:49
This happened to me.....my SIL blabbed the news with O and that is how my brother found out (I had text him too but he hadn't received it as had left his phone on silent at work etc) . Some people are just fecking stupid!
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