Hi ladies.
I don't often post on here but I really to need to talk to fellow pregnant ladies and get some advice, and I have no one else to turn to without me or O/H being judged.
Here's our background. I have been with O/H 7 years, married for one and I am 4 months pregnant (planned).
The past couple of months my husband has been getting distant, staying up late, trying to find excuses to go out without me etc, and this afternoon I finally got him to admit what's up.
He said he feels bored by our relationship and he doesn't know if he wants to carry on or not, but he feels trapped because of the baby. The bored thing I can understand I suppose as I have been on school hols for 5 weeks now and am bored at home and wait for him to get back from work. He also works abroad a lot so I do find myself sitting around and waiting for him to come home. He says he feels pressured by me and that I'm too clingy and he wants more independence.
But when I say ok, shall we work on this he says he's not sure. He doesn't know if it's a phase and will pass, or whether we've hit the end of our relationship.
So, well I'm devastated! I knew something was up but didn't realise he was sat their contemplating leaving me

. We are very different people and that usually works well for us but I'm scared we're drifting apart. He says he still loves me and I still love him very much, but where do we go from here????
What on earth do i do? I love my husband and want our baby... I don't want to be going through this at all. This is my worst nightmare.
Thanks for listening, and any advice is very welcome!!
xx