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10/02/2016 at 13:19
December 15th 2015 I lost my baby at around 8 weeks,devastated wasn't the word . it was, what my doctor said ,a very bad loss .despite only being 8 weeks I hemoraged due to a blockage and was in a lot of pain so the hospital removed the blockage then sent me home. The day after again I was taken in and had to have more products of pregnancy remove from opening of my womb. Two days later I Was in a lot of pain again and was admitted in to hospital. I was given pessaries which did not work so had to have a ERPC ad I had another blockage and my womb full of blood. Finally I was OK and stopped bleeding around 23rd of December and had a negative pregnancy test within days. then on the 7th of February iv had a positive test (well 3 ) yet had no period since mc I'm so scared that this will end badly again.I'm really scared.has any one else conceived this quickly with out a period please?
10/02/2016 at 14:35
I don't have experience with this.. but all i came here to say is.. no matter how difficult it may seem at this time hun.. stay really really strong.. if this is your magic bean.. it will need mommy to be very positive at this time.. i am sure you want this bean to stick as much as all of us here do.. just because all of this is happening so soon.. dont lose hope... stress makes any good situation turn into a negative one.. try meditating and relaxing your self.. that helps with your hormones too.. see a doc and get your peace of mind.. i am hoping this all works out for you.. xoxo
10/02/2016 at 16:24
Hey Ciarans mommy, I miscarried in November 2015. The bleeding started on the 19th and I was seen by the EPU on the 23rd who confirmed our loss, plus negative test the week after. I feel for you soooo much! It was one of the most awful times of my life, and I didn't have half the complications that you did. I already have a little girl, she's 7 now, so knew exactly what I was missing out on, and I think that almost made it worse for me?! Anyhow we pull ourselves back together don't we, the best we can, and carry on. And here we are! I am also expecting again We found out at the end of December and like you I hadn't had a period since my mc. I was worried too, but my Doctor was actually really reassuring and said there is no reason why not having a period in between should be an issue - the fact that I'd had negative tests since the mc suggests hormone levels should have been back to or near to normal so would be fine. My midwife was also really good and advised me that often women who miscarry then conceive quickly again go on to have a perfectly healthy baby - she referred to them as 'Rainbow Babies' which I thought was just lovely. I am coming up to 12 weeks now (based on the 1st day of mc bleeding) and I have my first scan next Wednesday. It has felt like an age. I have been so paranoid and worried all the way through, waiting for something bad to happen. One of my major worries is that I have had next to no symptoms. I did have fatigue and tender breasts for a couple of weeks, but that seems to have totally disappeared now worrying me more than ever. The only other thing I'm experiencing from time to time is lower backache - which is not exactly comforting. Still, I keep trying to tell myself I'm not having painful cramps or any bleeding so surely that's got to be good. Just terrified I'll finally make it to the scan to be told there's no heartbeat. Fingers crossed though, my Rainbow Baby will prove me wrong and I'll have good news to report! Hope all goes well with you, I know it's difficult but we just have to stay as positive as we can! xoxox
11/02/2016 at 09:48
Thank you for taking the time to reply to me and I promise I will try to be strong and relax .I'm so happy to be pregnant and very hopeful.my doctor is seeinme next week. Iv always struggled being pregnant with 4 losses in total one being a 21 week gestation loss with a son. Thankfully my other son came along health in 2013. Iv been told by a few people its too soon and that my chances of miscarriage is likely so did go in to panic mode. Congratulations on your pregnancy,that's lovely to hear after a devastating loss xx
11/02/2016 at 09:59
I had an Ectopic Pregnancy and that was soon after I found out I was pregnant. I was 6 weeks when I started bleeding and having pains. I ended up having a laparoscopy. I was depressed and emotional all the time. They had to remove one fallopian tube too. I got pregnant that next year and was so scared that I was going to have a problem.
My point is, don't stress yourself out and give yourself anxiety. Believe me it's not healthy for us mothers and stay strong and positive. I hope everything will work out and you have a healthy baby.
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