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11/06/2014 at 05:38
Since I'm up and feeding Violet I thought I'd try to do my birth story whilst it's still fairly fresh in my mind.
I'd had a feeling throughout the pregnancy that I'd be early with this baby, and from about 38 weeks I started getting lots of rumbly period pains which made me think I was probably right. I was not. My due date came and went, and I was exceedingly grumpy about it as I'd really struggled this pregnancy towards the end and was so very ready to have a baby. At 40+5 I had a sweep which produced more cramps and a show, but nothing further happened.
At 40+8 I'd had a normal day, been very uncomfortable all day with heat/spd and general pregnancy discomfort, but no signs that anything was happening. At about 10.30pm I started to get ready for bed, and as I was washing my face I had a fairly uncomfortable tightening. Then while I was brushing my teeth I had another. They weren't lasting long, but hurt while they did, enough to lean over and rock through them. H was playing x box so I went and reported that I was having contractions, but that I didn't think anything was likely to come of them - I'd had tightenings on and off or weeks, so although these were more painful I didn't quite believe it meant anything was happening. With that said they were coming quite fast, every few minutes, so I called my mum who was going to look after Jacob while I went to hospital and warned her that things might be happening and to be on standby. I tried to have a lie down, but that hurt, so went back to leaning over and rocking. H was starting to look a bit concerned, and I decided to start timing the contractions at 11.02- (per my phone contraction timer.) Contractions were every 3 mins, but only lasting 30 secs so I didn't think i would be getting anywhere, but was starting to believe things were definitely happening. We decided to call my mum back at about 11.30 and asked her to come. I also got my tens machine on as I'd loved it with my last labour.
By 11.50 contractions were down to every 2 and a half mins, and I called the hospital to see if they'd let me come in, they asked if I wanted to wait a bit longer but I said no, it felt like I needed to come now. The call took a little while as they insisted on talking to me rather than H, and i couldn't talk through the contractions, so by the time i got off the phone it was about midnight. While I was on the phone my mum arrived so we were set to go. I felt like I needed to pee all the time, and had kept doing so/trying every other contraction or so, so went for a last wee before setting off, but as I got in the bathroom and got my trousers and pants down my waters exploded with a pop and soaked the floor. I called H and mum for help, contractions were now coming every 2 mins and I was struggling to move. I got new pants and a maternity pad on, then felt an urge to start pushing. It was about 12.20am by this point. I decided I wasn't going to be able to get in the car and travel to hospital whilst pushing so asked H to call an ambulance. Everything goes a bit blurry at this stage, I was in the bathroom leaning over the bath and panicking as I knew the baby was coming and there was just me, H and mum. Mum was gathering towels and preparing to catch. A first response paramedic arrived really quickly and came to see, he said he couldn't see the baby crowning yet, but I knew it was very close. I wasn't really giving pushing my all as I was scared and it really chuffing hurts, but after help arrived I got on it and started actually trying! A couple of mins later an ambulance crew arrived too - the small bathroom was getting a bit crowded. They asked if I could lie down on my back, I told them to jog on and that I couldn't move, and we compromised
11/06/2014 at 06:23
Congratulations! She's beautiful!
11/06/2014 at 06:41
What a great story! Congratulations, she's beautiful x
11/06/2014 at 06:55
She's gorgeous congrats x
11/06/2014 at 07:10
She's beautiful. Fantastic birth story!x
11/06/2014 at 07:17
Now that's a birth story! Wait until Violet is old enough for you to tell her how she was born!
Congratulations, she is gorgeous and glad your both ok and home xx
11/06/2014 at 08:09
What a birth story! Glad you are both ok and back home so quickly!
Congrats again, she's such a cutie xxx
11/06/2014 at 08:12
What an amazing story - congratulations, she's gorgeous!
11/06/2014 at 08:16
Wow! What a story SG! Congratulations again. That is so lovely that Jacob got to meet his little sister before he went to nursery! and well done you for managing that on your own! (I'm such a wimp i don't think i'd have managed) And she is just beautiful too! xxx
11/06/2014 at 08:24
Brill story and shes gorgeous!!!!!
11/06/2014 at 08:33
Oh SG you're amazing! Massive congratulations again on being so strong and look at your gorgeous girl! She looks absolutely perfect.
11/06/2014 at 08:46
What a speedy and dramatic entrance into the world for Violet! She is gorgeous and big well done to you!
11/06/2014 at 09:18
Crying here!!! Huge congrats, and what an amazing experience to have shared with your husband and mum. Hope the tear doesn't bother too much. She's lovely, how has Jacob taken to her? And to being a big bro? xx
11/06/2014 at 09:39
Fantastic story SG (I've been on the ambulance end of many a similar fast unintentional home birth!) and one to remember. Glad you and Violet are doing well xx
11/06/2014 at 09:57
11/06/2014 at 10:02
Amazing birth story! I actually laughed out loud at you telling the paramedic to jog on, ha! Congratulations, she's gorgeous xxx
11/06/2014 at 10:21
What a story, sounds like you did really well (and H and your mum too!). Violet (lovely name), is beautifu, huge congratulations. Hope J is enjoying being a big brother, must have been slightly surreal for him to wake up to a new sister in the morning!
11/06/2014 at 10:42
This made me well up - congratulations, she is a beauty and what a story to tell her in a few years!
11/06/2014 at 12:30
She is gorgeous! And an amazing birth story for when she is older x
11/06/2014 at 12:59
Wow what a story! You did so very well. Huge congratulations to you and your family xx
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