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27/10/2014 at 16:39
28/10/2014 at 04:30
Hiya Stubbsy17- i know how you feel, im 5 weeks, my first pregnancy and i worry ALL THE TIME. its on my mind every single second- i feel like im missing out on feeling excited and telling a few people because im so worried it will go wrong.
iv had cramps/ some pains from about 3weeks- til now, but im re-assured to see that everyone says its totally normal! the pain you are describing i think sounds normal unles its extremely sore pain and then maybe go to doc's and check it out? x
28/10/2014 at 11:27
Hi stubbsy17. So sorry to hear you're feeling so stressed and tired.
Sarah barr is right: it's totally normal, even the cramping pain.
Have you told your mum yet? It might be a scary thought but it sounds like you need some support and reassurance right now. It's tough to do this on your own at 17.
Your mum may be a bit shocked at first when you tell her - but, to be honest, you're probably better off telling her now than putting it off and getting to the point where she guesses.
If it helps, I have a 16-year-old. He's a boy, so it's obviously a bit different, but I can promise you that I'd be more upset about him keeping a big thing like this a secret from me than I would be if he told me about it.
Hope that helps.
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