well today im feelin so so so ill still i cnt stop coughin my nose wont stop runnin n my head is poundin but i spoke to chemist n ive got sum soothers to soothe my throat but i just want cough medicene lol hope it goes soon!!!
craigs really p***in me off big time now hes savin up to move in with his gf (which will be near me n will help me out more as hes livin 50 miles away atm) but its been 3 n half months since we split up and he still hasnt helped out with jake money wise, dnt get me wrong i dnt want him to give me money i just want him to help with baby milk, nappies or wipes!! im not askin 4 much but he knws how hard im findin it with money atm coz my work r just messin me around!!! and he sees him savin up will b better 4 jake n even said the other day that he mite not be able to afford the train fare to see jake until hes moved (which cud take up to 12 months for that to happen) jake isnt gunna knw who the hell he is. its bad enuf now he calls every man on tv with short dark hair dadda!! and after all this we had an argument yday and i told him he needs to start providin 4 jake even if its just 1--2 packs of wipes a week at least hes helping then!! but i told him that b4 he sees him again he needs to start providin et hopin it wud make him think but it didnt n he said fine he wont see him then! but im sick of bein walked all over by him!! am i askin too much n bein a b***??
plus im so paronoid that my waters r gunna break and not knw about it its so stupid i knw but i was the same at this stage with jake lol ud think id of learned lol!!! now i knw the end is near im so exited that i can finally be me again soon i feel like i havnt had a break but i suppose i havnt really well did have a 7 week break after i had jake!! but i hated bein preg then n i hate it now lol! myhouse is a tip but i just cnt b arsed movin my heads hurtin too much n jakes got the friggin teletubbies on omg i hate them sure it makes my head worse lol!!!
really sorry 4 the long moan x

aww... sorry to hear your feeling so crap its not good but hopefully the cold and cough will pass in a few days... and as 4 your little boys dad i really dont think your being a bitch!!!! a couple of packs of wipes are not that expensive especially if he can afford to move house with his gf!!! he needs a kick up the backside if u ask me lol hope u feel better soon!! xx

Isnt there a formal service that enforces estranced partners to pay child support to the parent with custody? It sounds severe, but if its causing you distress and it doesnt sound very good for you little boy, then it might be a necessecery step to take, Even saying that that is what you are going to do might force him in ot action. You wouldnt get away with saying that you werent going to feed/clothe your child becasue you were saving for his future, so why should he!!

he seems to think bcoz i am sole carer that i should provide everything!! ive thretend him b4 with courts but gave in just bcoz i want him to be there n he walks all over me just coz he knws he can but im just not lettin it happen any more!!!

good on ya!!xx do it for yourself and ur little boy

thanx katie x well from next month ive got 2 lil boys to think about!! such a shame that there dad cant b botherd x

hiya
ive got to say that i dont think you are being a b****
as my little girls dad was/is exactly the same
he would tell me 'what do you think all the other single mothers are doing all over the world ,they cope and yet you are moaning to me about this??'
i would want him to buy her nappies ,wipes etc just like you and he would say 'no as he was with someone else and had to pay for her kids to have wardrobes that month '
he would always say he couldnt come and see her and then say it was me stopping him???
so this went on for yrs and then i found a new man who loved me completly and we are having our 3rd child he includes my little girl as if she was his own ,but her dad doesnt like it
and he will still moan about money and he has to pay for things and cant afford to buy her shoes this month or a coat or whatever
so i now say well tell her why she cant have new shoes and i make her know its his fault and then i will buy her shoes a bit later
i mean my daughter is 9 yrs old so its been going on for soo long
sometimes the relationship gets civil between ex partners but othertimes it does get very bitter
and im not ashamed to say i am bitter as i remember how he treated us in the beginning
sorry for my rant but that really gets to me how men treat their ex and their children
all the best xxxx