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21/07/2016 at 11:10
Sorry for the long post. Need a good rant 😠I've just found out I'm pregnant with my second child (first from a previous relationship) my partner also has two from a previous relationship. So my partners mother has been causing quite abit of trouble for some time. My partner was stabbed (before we met) and near the same time split with the mother of his children. He was in hospital for some time and during that time his mother stepped in and had the kids on his days. Since then she has not give them back, doesn't allow him to take them out, controls what he does with them, constantly tells him what he should be doing but at the same time moans when he does it. Seems he can't do anything right where she's concerned. He has tried speaking with the mother of his children but she is close to his mother still and won't do anything to help the situation. I've not long found out I'm pregnant and he decided to tell his mum, she is furious. Telling him he's not a dad to the kids he's already got when in my head it's her that won't let him, we have both tried to take the kids out and make a effort to go see them every week but just get overruled or told we can't come cause she's busy. She's not yet spoken to me about it just constant abuse at my partner and it's quite upsetting me. She even phoned his children's mum and she rang him having a go too. Saying how can I dismiss the kids and just go have a baby on my own with him. We haven't even thought how they are going to feel, she doesnt even know me well enough for ne to have my baby. I was completely shocked, she's his ex why would I need her approval to have a baby with him.I know his mother is going to become even more controlling with his kids now and probably completely blank this one, which tbh I wouldn't mind if she does become she's a witch. I've told my partner he needs to just go to her house and take his children whether she likes it or not and return them to there mother after, when they are meant to go back but he doesn't want to cause any rupture because of how she gets. I'm actually terrified about how she is going to be with the both of us from now on and she isn't the type to just calm down and be fine after a while. Has anyone else been through anything similar that can offer advice.
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