how about a nice massage cushion for her to relax or something for solely her to relax to like a nice girly movie and a box of her fav treat. I know thats what i'd love as i know that my birthday is 3 days b4 the due date and no1 will buy me anything it will all be for the baby. which is great but don't forget her and her fav things to do to unwind and stuff maybe a few iou's? like giving her the timeout slips so if she feels a need for a little space then she can give you a peice of paper asking you to look after the baby for half an hours so she can go soak in the bath or read a book for 5 or ask you to clean the kitchen or i think you get teh idea lol Congratulations daddy and good luck

(just hope my partners as thoughtful as you are)