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15/10/2013 at 05:57
Well it's over :-(
Spotting Sunday morning turned into heavy bleeding, then yesterday morning I passed large lumps of tissue (not just blood). My early scan tomorrow is now just to check there are no retained products and that I don't need a d&c. Hubby and I are heartbroken and not really holding it together very well. I have carried on going to work but broke down in the manager's office yesterday and was nearly sent home, but alone in an empty house is the last place I want to be, so it's agreed I will work today as well, but go home if I need to, and have tomorrow and Thurs off, then I have a week' leave anyway. H and I are going to stay with my parents for a couple of days as of tonight since we're not coping together at home alone. Sorry to bring down the tone of the forum ladies. All I can do is cry and apologise. How do you get over this? We know we need help, but not where to get it. Hopefully the hospital will help? Sorry if BT is the wrong forum for this, just needed to let you all know.
Love and hugs to you all, and may you go on to have happy healthy pregnancies xx
15/10/2013 at 06:07
So sorry Barefoot. I've been looking out for you wishing for the best. Crying together wil be good for you right now, and time does help, I promise you that. Hugs to you both xx
15/10/2013 at 06:15
Please don't feel you need to apologise, this is part of the reason this community is here...we support each other through everything. I am so sorry you're going through this. I have no experience myself but the hospital should be able to give you details or literature of people who can help. Otherwise perhaps contact your GP? There are also many charities who offer support after mc. Big hugs lovely, be kind to yourself xx
15/10/2013 at 06:53
I'm so sorry.
BT is exactly the right forum, we're all here for the highs AND the lows.
Take some time to grieve, you don't have to get over it.
Lots of love.
15/10/2013 at 07:34
Sorry barefoot xx
15/10/2013 at 07:36
Sorry to hear this... Lots of support here for you x
15/10/2013 at 07:46
I am so so sorry love :) it certainly is heartbreaking, there is no answer other than talking to your hubby having loads of cuddles and time, you don't forget but time does help.
I was a mess when this happened to us last year, it's bl@@dy awful and you feel you won't move on, you do.
I'm here if you need a shoulder, so sorry and take care of yourself and hubby xx
15/10/2013 at 07:50
I'm so very sorry Barefoot. Be kind to yourself, allow yourself as much time to grieve as you need. X
15/10/2013 at 08:10
Sorry to read this. BT is here for you x
15/10/2013 at 08:13
Sorry to hear this Barefoot, take care of yourself and keep talking on here if it will help x
15/10/2013 at 08:14
So sorry Lovely.
There's isn't anything to do or say to "get over it", it is just something that gets easier to deal with over time.
We're here for the good and bad, so never apologise for posting here.
Really sorry to read this BF. Please don't think you shouldn't post here s this is a baby talk forum no matter how happy or sad the news may be. We are all here for you xxx
15/10/2013 at 08:23
Really sorry to read your update xx thinking of u x x
15/10/2013 at 08:25
I'm so sorry to read this Barefoot. Just take your time and don't look for solutions to make it better....only time can do that and until then cry and be with each other.
15/10/2013 at 08:26
So sorry Barefoot x as others said this is exactly the place to post. Hope you get the support you both need. Take care xxx
15/10/2013 at 08:31
So sorry to hear this x this is why we're here. It's not always sunshine and happiness but we're a community of support for all the time.
15/10/2013 at 08:34
So sorry to hear this xxx
15/10/2013 at 08:38
I am very sorry for your loss Barefoot. I wish something i could say would take away the pain, but I know that's not possible.
It is a huge cliche but time is a great healer. You need to stay together and just feel how you need to feel, there is no right or wrong with loss, cry and scream or just sit and think. Over time you will find that the sadness gives way a little and you will feel more "normal" again. I promise.
Look after yourselves.
15/10/2013 at 08:46
So sorry to hear this barefoot. Xx
15/10/2013 at 08:48
Really sorry to read your news. I hope that a few days at your parents gives you and your H the support you need. Thinking of you x
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