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30/03/2014 at 20:51
hi ladies, hope everyone is well. i was just wondering how many of you had had your scans yet and who's still waiting? if you're still waiting when's your appointment? yes, i am super nosey lol I'm 11+1 today (by emergency scan measurements) how far is everybody now hope everyone is having a happy and healthy pregnancy so far xxxxx
31/03/2014 at 08:41
I have already had my 12 weeks scan and I have my 20 week scan 4 weeks tomorrow I am 16 weeks and 2 days.
How are you feeling hun? Hope all goes well at tomorrow's appointment x
31/03/2014 at 08:55
11+4 here and scan a week on Thursday. Will be exactly 13 weeks. So excited to see bubba xxx
31/03/2014 at 09:05
eeek exciting times ladies!!! charleymoo i bet you are counting the sleeps, will you be sharing the scan pic with us? pretty please do xxxx
anjwass, wow 16weeks already, it's flying by hun!! maybe not for you though, everybody used to say how fast time was going when I was pregnant and i used to think "yeah, maybe for you" haha. imw definitely getting nervous about tomorrow, i don't know what's happened but I'm feeling a lot more positive yesterday and today i don't know if it's denial or what but I'm just refusing to believe there's anything wrong and expecting good or atleast better news tomorrow. i will update when i get back hun. take care for now xxxx
31/03/2014 at 09:33
I will do! My good friend just had a miscarriage this weekend and don't think she's quite ready to see scans yet so will be keeping it out of public view (off fb) until she feels better. Need to share it somewhere though!
You're doing really well lovely. Hope it all goes okay xxx
31/03/2014 at 09:42
aww charley, what a lovely friend you are being considerate enough to think of your friend's feelings even in your excitement. i really do think that's a lovely quality i love looking at scan pics and having a guess on the nub theory too thanks hun, I'm stronger than i ever thought i could be, I'm taking it day by day, well more hour by hour xxxx
31/03/2014 at 12:10
Thank you lovely. We were talking not long ago about how we'd feel if it happened to us and she was telling me how hard she'd find it seeing others go through their pregnancy afterwards. She was only 3 weeks behind me and hasn't mentioned me being pregnant since. Just can't do that to her. I've never been through it (incredibly lucky girl here!) so don't know how hard it is, but really don't want it to look like I'm rubbing it in her face. Will follow her lead.
Please do nub when I have it though! I'm pants at it!
You're very brave lady xxx
31/03/2014 at 13:27
she is lucky to have such a wonderful and considerate friend hun, give her time and I'm sure she will be excited for you again. i had a "friend" a few years ago who was ttc at the same time as me and i got my bfp and rushed round to tell her before I'd even told dh as i honestly thought she would share in my excitement and she shewed me away and started. hate campaign against me telling people I'd rubbed it in her face that I'd gotten my bfp etc, so childish, then i misscarried and she abruptly informed me she was glad i had as she'd "wanted it more than me" aad she was "devastated" when i got my bfp before her. needless to say I've never spoken to her again lol its at times like that and times like your friend is having now that you need your friends most and you find out how your friends really are. In th past, when I've been in your friends position where I've misscarried and they are pregnant, for the first few weeks i found it incredibly hard to even say the p or b words as it was just too painful an i didn't wan to just burst into tears if someone said "baby" or mentioned pregnancy so i wvoided talking about it altogether, but i did feel guilty for dismissing my friends excitement and not sharing in their joy when they were being there for me and did explain it to them afterwards, when it got a bit easier to talk about. i did really appreciate those friends, like you, who understood it would be hard at first and took that into consideration. THAT is what a good friend does hun, you're brill I'm sure your friend will talk to you when she learns how to. it sounds like youre doing a brill job of being supportive in the meantime xxxx
31/03/2014 at 14:30
Its really weird as on one hand it feels like it is going slow but then on the other it feels like it is going really fast. I can remember when I got my 20 week scan date thinking 'oh gosh it's 6 weeks away and that's ages' and now it's in 4 weeks which seems it will be here before I know it....how odd haha! I can't believe I am nearly half way there....it felt like a bit step getting to 16 weeks, not sure why and my next big leap is hitting 20 weeks!
Well I will be keeping an eye out for your update tomorrow and to be honest I know it's hard but I think you are better off thinking positive and constantly worrying will just wear you down and be exhausting! Also because you are still not 100% sure what EXACTLY the position is with your baby that you can't fully take it in. I am sure you will be in a better position tomorrow and know which way things are going good luck!
You are a very brave lady though to be going through what you are at the minute yet you are still there to support and will on other pregnancy ladies or the ladies ttc....I take my hat off to you as I found when ttc it started really getting to me and I had to take a little break from this site but you are constantly there to help others. You are clearly a lovely lady xx
31/03/2014 at 17:20
31/03/2014 at 20:23
Ooh, that's exciting Samantha! My dates were moved back 5 days with my 1st hoping that doesn't happen again xxx
31/03/2014 at 20:31
31/03/2014 at 23:31
aww thankyou anjwass, that's such a lovely thing to say. made me smile n shoulder scrunch *awww* too lol. I'm just going to focus on the fact i get to see my baby tomorrow xxxxx
Samantha and charley, ooooh we can guess your nubs and coo over your scan pics just a day apart I'm booked in on 10th for my official twelve week scan too! im not sure if they will cancel it yet with these other scans but i should find out this week xxxx
01/04/2014 at 22:24
My 12 week scan is on the 14th April when I'll be 12+1 so less than 2 weeks to go, I can't wait. My EDD is 26th Oct but my midwife (who I only met a week ago) just went along with my dates so not sure if it'll change when I get my scan. It'll be so nice to be able to tell people especially as it's my 2nd so I've got a bit of a tummy on me already. Luckily I'm a teacher so don't now have to work until after Easter so don't have to hide it any more!!
03/04/2014 at 13:01
Got mine on the 21st april il be 12 wks and 4 days, edd 30th of october xxx
09/04/2014 at 16:05
I have my 12 week scan tommorrow! When I'll be 11 weeks 5 days! Very nervous! I also have a little boy called Matthew who is 16 months! Got bad food poisoning just now! Just hoping it hasn't harmed baby! xx
09/04/2014 at 19:30
13/04/2014 at 15:34
AnnonymousxX hope your scan went well?
Lottie not long till your scan now mine is a week on monday it seems to be dragging!
13/04/2014 at 22:34
AnnonymousxX I hope your scan went well, mine is less than 12 hours & I've got massive butterflies I feel so scared & nervous as to whether there is an actual baby (even though I've seen the heartbeat with a home doppler & have still got nausea & have a growing bump) but excited too. Think this is almost worse than the 2ww, doubt I'll get much sleep tonight!!
Good luck to anyone else who's got there's soon x
14/04/2014 at 07:47
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