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16/03/2016 at 20:05
Hi, i am in great need of some support as my boyfriend has forced me to leave him cause I refused abortion.
Ive had my fair share of abuse in relationships so im very lucky I had strength and experience to choose myself and baby over his ridiculous excuse for not wishing to be a father. Lucky escape if im honest but if anyone has had similar experience, I could really do with some positive advice to keep me strong and baby healthy. Something I only ever seen on TV and honestly would never imagined being in this situation.
I can't wait for lil baby and its such an amazing and magical experience that I cherish every day. I am just scared that the stress of losing man I loved, will destroy me again and I don't ever want that to happen.
I don't want his influence controlling my every thought and I could really do with some help to move on and forget the last few days of hell, filled with arguments and start being happy again for my daughter and her new little baby brother or sister
16/03/2016 at 20:47
Hi KDiane, we're so sorry to read what you're going through. We might not be able to offer any advice, but we wanted you to know, you're not alone, and we're sending you a real big virtual hug. If you want to let us know which month you're due, we can point you in the direction of one of our Birth Clubs where you can meet others due the same time as you.
16/03/2016 at 21:01
Hi kdiane not been in this situation but I was a single mum for five years you can be a amazing mum on your own well done for having the strength to not go with your ex partners wishes enjoy your pregnancy and some happy memorys with you and little one I have been with my new partner for 16 months now and we have our first on the way been a single mum is not end of the world keep strong xx
16/03/2016 at 21:07
Thank you so much for kind reply. I know there's always a better future ahead but at times like this, its too easy to think negatively and stop believing its ever possible and knowing that eventually, life won't be so miserable means alot to me thank you :-)
Congratulations on your new arrival and I wish you and your family a very happy future together :-)
16/03/2016 at 21:11
Sweet that thank you :-) Early days and im terrified the stress will harm baby but im remaining positive that come November, little one will be safe and healthy and ready to begin a beautiful new life ahead
16/03/2016 at 21:12
Thank you when is you little one due ? It took me about a year after my girls dad left to really kind of snap out of my sadness but eventually I realised I was so much better off will def get easier hard at moment as hormones all over the place aswell but you will be fine :) X
16/03/2016 at 22:11
Early days yet so not due until November :-)
I think thats why I'm so scared cause I don't want all the stress and annoyance affecting the poor little soul, that and im gonna have to come up with an amazing story as to why they ended up without a father. Its better to have none though in stead of one who makes your mother life a nightmare.
HHorrible feeling having to leave him and wish I didn't have to make such a decision but feels better knowing I put myself and family first.
Heartbreaking that someone could not love a little baby, especially their own but knowing that one day its easier makes these few days seem insignificant in long run thank you.
Im sure your new arrivals going to bring so much love and happiness to the family and its amazing that you came through so much on your own and survived, even more so that you didn't let it destroy you and been a huge inspiration to me tonight thank you x
16/03/2016 at 22:29
I'm glad to have helped im also due in November the 6th have a look on the November mums boards there are a few mums on there we can all support each other :) X
16/03/2016 at 22:32
I can never understand the dads thinkings either my girls dad has been in and out of there life's when it suits him I'd never stop him from seeing them as my eldest loves him but I will never understand how men can walk away either they just just get double the love from us instead
17/03/2016 at 08:49
Hiya Hunni. I was in the same position as you. I fell pregnant and at first everything was going good untill he started to cheat on me and he decided he didn't want to be a dad and told me it's either him or the baby. 14 years on my girl is amazing with the help of my family, I am so glad I chose my daughter who turns 15 this year. My life wouldn't be the same without her. She asked me the other day why she didn't have a dad so I thought she is old enough to know the truth and I won't repeat what she said :D .
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