21/02/2014 at 14:21
21/02/2014 at 14:51
Well huni il start from the begining for you and if you feel at any time you want to ask please feel free to ask any thing xx
When i was 15 i went on the depo injection...yes i know 15 but my father was very stricked with both myself and little sister after big sister had her first baby at 17, i was on depo for almost 10 years didnt even think about it just kept going for the injection as i was not in a stable relationship.
about 5 years ago i remember saying to my work mate i could alwways tell when my period was coming because of the pain in my side/hip yet again never thought any thing of it, just carried on, from the age of 22 i was asked to attened for a smear test but i never went...i wonder if i had gone would they have picked it up sooner, now iv always been a bit of a bigger girl, iv always been a size 16 so i never noticed any swelling.
The morning i was due to move into my new place i was busy picking up some bits from my mums house, i remember not feeling too good so i went to make a coffee, whilst in the kitchen i remember thinking i feel sick so made my way up the stairs to the loo, it seemed to take for ever to walk up there stairs, by the time i got there i was soaked and bent over screaming in pain, my mum rushed me down to local a&e and my own doctor was on call, she asked if i was pregnant i said NO WAY! she said are you sure, by this point the pain had over taken and i passed out, sorry if im scarring you! but id rather tell you every thing xx
When i came to i was in the back of the ambulance being rushed to the county hospital, yet again the pain took over and i went again, in the hospital i was awear of them saying she will need an op asap! i remember signing some thing but i didnt read it, i came to and was shocked with what i was told.
They tried to remove the cyst via a lap but when they got in and saw the size of it they had to cut me open like a c section, which is what im left with a scar running from 1 side to the other side, i had 25 plus staples and was on bed rest of a week but i discharged my self after 2 days, my advice would be tho if they say bed rest for a week take it! also i was not aloweed to drive for a while and i was off work for 3 months but yet again went back sooner but on shorter hours.
The cyst they found was the size of a small honey dew mellon, it had twisted round my ovary and tube on my right side and killed it off, they couldnt save any eggs it was being torn into bits by the cyst.
My advice is to push to get it removed before its too late! i wonder if i had gone to the doctors sooner would they have been able to say my ovary but who knows!
im lucky to still have my left side, which i went on to have my little boy 18 months ago, i was told by the doctors that damage was caused to my left side and i might struggle to fall pregnant but we have managed it once full term and twice upto 8/10 weeks, this time im praying il go full term again.
if you want to chat please get in touch and ask any thing im happy to tell you what i can xxx
21/02/2014 at 14:52
21/02/2014 at 15:31
21/02/2014 at 19:20
Yes they said i would of had it a while, the recovery started ok but i did do too much and went back to work too soon but i was ok.
if your in a lot of pain huni please got to a&e dont leave it! they got to mine just before it burst, they said any later and the out come might not have been as good xxx
22/02/2014 at 10:15
Oh my god Tb you poor thing! It really is a rollercoaster you're on! I am so sorry you're going through this. How U feeling Hun? This must all be such a shock, thinking of U xxx
22/02/2014 at 10:23
22/02/2014 at 10:36
Aw I don't blame U hunni, I hope your scan gives U some answers, the waiting must be driving U mad. If they couldn't find a baby at 4-5 months on a scan I agree it's less likely you are PG, but if U are then the other ladies are right - don't let anyone influence your decision about what to do. Otherwise U could end up regretting something and resenting those people for the rest of your life! Xxxx
22/02/2014 at 13:05
TB yes huni once it was gone and i had got my head round what had happened the pain i use to get never came back xxx
Hope your ok today huni xxx
23/02/2014 at 15:15
23/02/2014 at 17:30
01/03/2014 at 20:28
01/03/2014 at 20:38
Good luck huni xx was thinking about you today xx
02/03/2014 at 00:03
02/03/2014 at 07:35
Hi tb86, I have been thinking about you an wondering how you have been getting on. I hope your scan goes well on Monday and they finally manage to find the cause of all of your worry, whatever the outcome I suppose this experience ha been a major learning curve for you in lots of ways. You no know how supportive/unsupportable your partner is at times when you REALLY need him and it has also kin of made you think about having children, even if it isn't a baby this time in the future I and when you do find out your pregnant, you now know how you will feel about it. I don't mean any of this to sound harsh hunni, not at all. I just strongly believe that everything happens for a reason and what doesn't kill you makes you stronger!!! Good luck hunni and please do keep us posted xxxd
02/03/2014 at 09:33
Oh wow huni, its good that your liking the idea now, and i know people all say things happen for a reason, i just hope you get the best out come for you huni,
What time is your scan? that defo sounds like some of the strange symptoms iv been having, when was your last period?
Its also odd that they found a heart beat, was that via a doppler? and did they say how fast it was? a babies heart beat is a lot faster than ours lol xxxx
02/03/2014 at 10:02
02/03/2014 at 12:02
I would just like to add hun that I am 7+5 pregnant now.and haven't missed a period yet this year!!! I ha on last week, started on the Wednesday and tailed of the following Thursday (Thursday just gone) it was a proper period with heavy pain and bleeding . That lasted my usual 7days!!! I had a scan on Tuesday which showed a tiny baby with a heartbeat!! It does happen hunni I really hop your scan for well hunni an whatever the outcome I hope it I one that makes you happy xxxx
02/03/2014 at 12:16
Have you done a hpt? i really am keeping every thing crossed for you babe xx
02/03/2014 at 13:48
Bleeding has started for me again today, I suppose only time will tell for both of us what the outcome will be hun. I hope we both get the news we want at the end of it all xxx
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