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12/02/2014 at 10:06
Sat with the hubby last night watching tv and I had this awful feeling of "Oh my god. We're going to be parents. We won't be able to sit and watch tv like this soon. It's all going to change. I don't know if I'll be able to cope. What if I get it all wrong." etc etc.
I know its probably just silly worry but I'm terrified. I said to my hubby I was scared I'm going to be a rubbish Mum and he said "Well, we'll muddle along together"
12/02/2014 at 10:35
12/02/2014 at 11:22
12/02/2014 at 12:06
Its our first baby too and we havent changed nappies or anything before. Its more a case of our do what we want life will have changed.
I think also, I can feel flutters etc in my tummy from the baby which Ive felt for a while and yesterday I was convinced I could feel it on my hand when I held my hand there. I said to hubby to have a feel and he kinda wrinkled his nose and said no. Which I can understand cos it is wierd but it also threw me a little.
12/02/2014 at 12:14
12/02/2014 at 12:24
It is defo the baby as I asked the lady at the scan when the baby was moving and I could feel it. I think at the moment, perhaps its not as real to him as me and I understand that. He's very protective of me moreso now than before and wont let me lift stuff etc and when I went to the Drs about my headaches I was getting text me asking how I had got on which he normally wouldnt do.
I said to him when he has been taking bump pictures for me that itll only ever be the once so not to moan I also said last night when the kicks are bigger that I want him to feel them, even if he finds it wierd, because I want him to experience it too as we only want one baby and I want him to share what I am experiencing. He didnt object when I said this and it perhaps didnt help he said he had a headache last night too
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