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16/07/2018 at 07:20
I stupidly had sex with my husband two weeks Ago and he went in without a condom for about 5 minutes Before putting a condom on.
i have a 10 month old son, last night I had a bit of leakage from my boobs and I’m 2 days late on my period the last week or so I have been stupidly tired to what do you think are these positive tests?
i really don’t no how i feel about this pregnancy, I’m so scared I swore I would never have another baby. My 2nd son was stillborn at 38+4 and my pregnancy was a nightmare from start to finish with my rainbow son. im so overweight the risks of a bad outcome are scaring me x
16/07/2018 at 07:29
I remember you from the due in Oct boards, how is your little one?
I can imagine it is such a time of worry, I do see and faint line but it’s blue dye which isn’t the most accurate. Why don’t you try a pink dye to see, maybe you are worrying for no reason.
Just know that what ever the outcome you alwahs have options and ultimately have to do what’s right for you and your family! And we are always here to listen!
Have you spoken to your husband about how you are feeling?
16/07/2018 at 07:54
he’s doing well thank you, we’re at the hospital a lot for his blood pressure but he’s doing so much better.
I haven’t spoken to my husband I thought I’d do a test this morning and then tell him. I’ve canceled work today as I couldn’t concentrate.
We always wanted two more close together but after loosing Jacob I said I was done after this one xx
16/07/2018 at 08:16
I can imagine how scared you must feel, and it must be so hard to think right now. I think take one thing at a time and establish if you are pregnant, go and get a first response and see what it says. Then go from there. And once you know and have a chat with him it will help, you will feel better. Good things are never going easy, I know!
My little one is 8 months and I’ve just tested positive this morning, so am excited but freaking out a little. I’ve had miscarriages so it never allows me to fully get excited, there’s always that nagging doubt in my mind. X
16/07/2018 at 09:53
Hi Chamilto, lovely to see you back on the forum - do keep us posted on the tests...
16/07/2018 at 13:39
Ow sending lots of sticky dust to you jade!! how many weeks are you?
I done a first response it was negative, the clear blue is very obviously positive by the 1o mind being up. I phoned my bereavment midwife and she has said to test again friday Morning but said it sounds very likely that I am pregnant.
Thank you Danielle!
16/07/2018 at 13:42
Oh Chamilto, how you feeling about it?
16/07/2018 at 14:40
I Don’t really no what to feel about it.
I keep thinking I like how our family dynamic is Right now with the two boys and my house is hustbthe right size for us all. But then I feel awful for thinking like that as I should have 3 boys anyway.
I think the mental and physical aspect of going through another pregnancy is just as terrifying and I just don’t no if I can do it again, but if i am pregnant then we will just have to adapt as after what we have been through there is no way I could end a pregnancy.
i will see what the result is on Friday and go from there.
16/07/2018 at 15:37
I think I’m like 4 weeks or something ridiculously esrly, I literally got a positive last night! I’ve taken a FR, clear blue rapid responde and a clear blue digi lol just to be sure. So crazy!!
Do you not think that could be an evap line as I hear about these being notorious with blue dye tests and the first response is more sensitive so if any were supposed to be positive it would be the FR ? No idea though as Ive never used that particular one, but it does look like a faint positive looking at it!
I understand how you feel, take it day by day and you will get there in the end.
Let us know how you get on on Friday!
23/07/2018 at 15:14
How did you get on Chamilto?
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