Tbh I would rather know if baby is seeming big. Zoe was 7lb 7oz and the midwife commented that that was a big baby for me to be carrying. I would rather know the situation than be left not knowing just so I can feel positive about it. That was my approach last time and it didn't exactly go very well.
No decision re VBAC yet, will wait until the scan at 37 weeks I think. I have no feelings either way, although when she did say she didn't think I would go in to labour naturally I did feel a bit of a relief that I had a reason for a c-section ... so maybe that says something.
MM - I have an ELCS booked in already, has been booked since I was 22 weeks that's how adamant I was. They have said that they only need to know the day before if I change my mind so I have plenty of lee way.