Hi girls.

Got my bfp on sat which i'm over the moon about. I'm trying to stay relaxed about this after my mc but can't stop going to the loo to check if i'm bleeding or not.

Don't want to join the due in forum as think i'm tempting fate. Thought i'd stay here with you guys. x

Hey you

So, first off, congratulations!!!

Second - I think we all have all felt the way you are feeling right now. One minute you are euphoric, the next freaking out. I am still on subconscious knicker watch, even now at 17 weeks.

And thirdly - it's not surprising you are finding it hard to join your due in forum. It took me ages to start casual posting and have only recently been an "official" DIO lady. Laujai started a thread about due in forums a while back - have a look for it you will find we all feel the same way!

Our little pg after mc forum is friendly and supportive and growing in members everyday (hooray!), you are more than welcome to hang out with us!!!!

xxSara

Hi MrsKD. Congratulations! I had my BFP two weeks ago but I still don't feel ready to join a due in forum. I think I'll stay in here at least until I have my reassurance scan in two weeks and see my babies heart beat. I had a mmc and ERPC on 2nd March. I know it is hard but try to relax. I've found the girls in this forum to be great alwasy there with fab advice and support. x x

Hello hun

Congrats on your BFP.

Like M&S says we are all scared to join forums at some point I still havent joined Nov LOL im 11+2 have had 2 scans so far, booking in appt today have consultant nxt wk & 12wk scan following wk & still cant bring myself to join!!!

Pg after mc is lovely and lots to talk to at all stages of pg which is nice.

xxx

Hi girls, thanks for the reply's.

Its still very early days for me only 5+1 and I ovulated quite late in my cycle so don't think i'm even as far as that.

Laujai, i'm glad your scans so far have went well.

I had mc at 8 weeks last time. I don't know whether i would be able to get an early scan? I filled in a form at the docs surgery yesterday for get my booking in appointment with midwife but didn't see point of seeing the doc.
If i'm honest i don't really want to know anything. Don't want to go through what i did the last time with blood tests and scans and still not knowing what happening.

Off on holiday a week on sat so just going to take each day as it comes and enjoy my hols. x

Congratulaions! It took me a while to join my due in - I only did after I'd had a scan and felt a bit braver. Hope you manage to get an early scan to give you some reassurance.

Sticky Dust xx

congrats!! i agree you can stay here if you would like! i am in here loads more then in DIN and like Lau, i too am 11+6 and have had 2 healthy scans and still dont feel comf. in DIN. good luck and heres to a long healthy 9mounths!!

I'd recommend you go loiter in your due in forum. even if you don't feel ready to post yet, you'll know read about people at same stage as them, and then you'll feel you already know the girls a bit when you feel brave enough to post. I loitered for about 4 weeks before I posted in mine!
It will get easier with time. sometimes I don't even check the loo roll when I wipe now. I'm so brave!!
Gxx
(22+2)

Hi gemgems13, I have been loitering and reading the other girls posts just can't write anything myself. There are girls on there in the same position as me however i feel if i post in there that i'm tempting fate.

Got a bit worried yesterday as my symptoms last week were quite bad, feeling so sick and sore boobs. But yesterday i felt fine so was starting to worry myself. But today got sore boobs again so feel a little reasured. I'm trying to chill out but its not happening. xx

Hey MrsKD,
I'm in the DIJ forum and have posted on and off..... i totally understand how you feel and i believe loads more people will be posting in June/July time...
I've had two mmc but thought I'd post on there as my mum keeps telling me i need to claim this pregnancy (easier said than done)
Feel free to join in when your ready! Really hope and pray this one sticks for us!! Sending you loads of sticky baby dust!

xx

hi, i'm new. i though i might fit in here. firstly, congratulations!
i'm in the same boat too. i m/c in october last year after ttc for 5 years. i found out last night that i'm pregnant. i'm so happy and so scared! i have managed to get a scan booked wit the early pregnancy clinic for two weeks tomorrow. (i'm probably only 4.5 weeks) but until then for peace of mind i am stocking up on pregnancy tests and will do one every day! i did 4 yesterday! lol
is anyone having any pregnancy symptoms yet? i have really sore boobies, i've had some light cramping and really bad wind, both ends!
i'm supposed to be at uni, but i'm having the day off and taking it easy! the next few weeks are going to be so hard.i should keep busy really, but i feel quite content sitting at home and waiting until 12 weeks, i may feel a bit safer then, lol

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