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16/07/2013 at 18:55
Hi there everyone,
I would really appreciate any advice/ comments. I am so so so worried and anxious.
i started slightly bleeding on Sunday, called the hospital and they asked me to come in yesterday. According to the hospital I am 8 weeks on but I knew my dates had been wrong and I know that I am not as far along as that. I was given an emergency scand which confirmed that I was in fact 6 weeks, they could see a sac and embryo in it but no Heartbeat. I am totally in bits . They said it could have stopped developing or could just be too early to hear the heart beat. they told me it measured 2 mm. I did bleed more last night and now i am feeling very slight cramping in my lower abdomen.
my pregnancy symptoms are less too.. Boobs not sore and not feeling as sick.
I feel like its all bad signs but am hoping that when they scan me again on Monday... They told me to go back to see if there has been any further growth... I am praying that they will hear a heartbeat or see some growth . It feels like I am having period type symptoms Now.
Please can you offer me any advice or encouragement or is this looking bad?
Thank you in advance x
16/07/2013 at 19:19
Sorry to hear youre going through this. 6 weeks is still very early days for a heartbeat so it may just be that. In early pregnancy I kept thinking period was coming because I had more period symptoms than preg, including cramping. It's positive that they saw a sac and embryo so I keep everything crossed for that heartbeat to be fluttering away by Monday. Xxx
17/07/2013 at 00:29
Thank you for the reply.
Ironically after i wrote this i had an urge to go to the toilet where i stayed for nearly an hour. My first experience of this wont go into any detail but it was not pleasant. I then called the hospital and they asked me to come in straight away. They examined me there which was awful too and confirmed that the "pregnancy had failed" Been back an hour now, feeling pretty rubbish and cannot even think about sleeping. Wanted to let you know as you took the time to message. In tears now but Thank you xx
17/07/2013 at 06:04
So sorry to hear that Jay Jay, the exact same thing happened with my wife, we lost our bean at the same stage as you under covert similar circumstances. It's a horrible thing to go through and wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy.
Try to get people around you and rest up. It's hard to do but try to view it as this little one wouldn't have been ready or strong enough to have a happy life and by this happening, you are getting yourself ready for next attempt.
We waited till docs have us all clear, 6-8 weeks, before trying again and we're pregnant again. The docs will offer you an early scan at same point you lost this one, we have ours on Monday.
stay stron. Look after yourself and we're all here if you need support x
17/07/2013 at 08:44
im so so sorry stay strong dont lose hope i ve been there twice im worried now but keep praying. just read miscarrieges blog they will help you. like to know you are not alone, dont blame yourself everything happen for a reason.
you are in my prayers.
desp2daddy congraaaaaa everything is gonna be ok
28/07/2013 at 20:55
Thank you so much for your kind words.
i feel better physically now but still sad.
waiting for ovulation to start now.
wishing you all the very best in your pregnancies and truly THank you again.
hopefully I can in the not so far away future share some good news of my own with you all.
03/08/2013 at 20:35
i hope so too jay jay! Am sorry again but i hope the good news you are waiting for is just round the corner xx
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