Hi

i haven't posted on here since i had my daughter 3 years ago, but looking for advice or someone in the same situation.

i found out i had mmc at my 12 weeks scan in January, i was amazed that i had a bfp last week.  I am worried that since then i have had no symptoms at all.  In my last 2 pregnancies by this stage my breasts were so sore they couldn't be touched and i was so sick.  The only thing i have is a pulling sensation in my abdomen.  I am really scared by this, my body played such a cruel trick on me before, growing a bump and everything just to find out at 12 weeks i had mmc at 7 weeks.  

i know that stress and worry wont be helping but I am really worried that my body is playing a trick on me again.

anyone had anything similar and found that all was ok?

Hey, so sorry you went through a mmc, I had one last July and can completely sympathise. It's easy for me to say 'don't worry' but I know that won't help! It's completely understandable to think it might happen again, but this is a different pregnancy and every pregnancy is different so there is every chance it'll be fine this time! Good luck Hun and congratulations on your bfp, keeping everything crossed that this is a sticky bean! Xxx

Hi moomin. I am in a similar situation to you... I had a mmc at 10 weeks in feb & got my bfp this week.

Im like you & think i'll worry over everything with this one (i already am!). With regards to the boob situation... Ive compared how i feel now to this point inlast preg & my boobs by now were feeling very' 'full'.. They're not doing that now which i was a little anxious about but i wonder if its because they're still stretched out a bit from the last preg & that's why i am not having the same feelings yet (if that makes sense)... I know after my miscarriage my boobs had a definite 'sagging' to them which i didnt have before i was pregnant which im guessing was due to them getting noticeably bigger in the few weeks i was pregnant & then losing it as my hirmones came down. This might be the case with you too?

hope everything works out well for you this time x

Hi moomin I too am in the same situation. I had a mmc at 13+ wks (baby died 12+4) this was after 3 years of trying and shockingly I've just discovered I am pregnant again, only just over 4 weeks (so my postive was a faint line) the only symptom I have is tiredness, needing to pee a little more. In my previous pregnancys (I have 2 children and had 2 mc) I had terrible sore, heavy boobs and was really sick! I know that sometimes the symptoms can start from 6 weeks and no 2   Pregnancies are the same.

i wish you lots of luck for a sticky lil baby this time

It's not been a fun week, bleeding and pain led to a morning in a&e on Sunday, went for an emergency scan on Tuesday which showed a gestational sac, but no yolk sac or heartbeat, it has been labelled a "pregnancy of unknown locaction" which i have never heard of, but it could mean ectopic

had my second lot of bloods taken this morning to track hcg, so will hopefully know more later today.  I have had nausea for the past too mornings, but still no sore boobs, dont know whether tiredness is from pregnancy or from all the stress and worry!

SW2 and kellymyule, i really hope everything goes smoothly for you both xxx

Hi moonin, could it be that it's to early to see anything yet? Glad ur having hcg tracked, hopefully that will give you a positive result today. Wishing you lots of luck and baby Dust. Let us know how u get on 

It is still very early, just 6 weeks today.  I have another scan booked for tuesday, to see if anything shows then x

I think it's after 6 weeks or so they see anything in the scan. Also u maybe less than u think, I know I always have been. I'm even earlier, only 4+ 3 I've never found out this early before. 

My dates may be out my period lasted 9 days last month ( usually only 4) but i think that was down to the residual infection left over from mmc.  The gestational sac was measuring at 5+5 so at least something was right x

keeping everything crossed for you moomin for your bloods & scans... I will be thinking of you x

I have everything crossed for you