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02/09/2013 at 21:20
I'm sure the last time BT was this busy was about three years ago! I've been at work all day and only just trying to catch up now but it is so great to see the board moving again. Would be great to keep it up (I'm on ML in 48 working days and will need entertaining!!!!)
02/09/2013 at 21:36
There was a thread earlier about how quiet it was and it's probably spurred people on.
02/09/2013 at 22:03
I know, I hope it lasts rather than being a one off.
How's things for you now? Have been wondering about you x
02/09/2013 at 22:18
Thanks BG. Nothing has been sorted really. I saw him last week for an hour and that's it so I hit him with everything. Said I needed him to take me to the house and confronted him properly about the picture. He says it's from last year but I'm sure his son looks too old for it really to be from then (they went on holiday early last year). I still don't quite know what to do with myself. I was really busy last week, he cancelled on me again at the weekend and I'm pretty busy this week again. Told him I have one evening free and I want to see him but all I got was probably! I'm trying to be rational but it's proving way too hard to cut emotions out of it. My head is telling me one thing but the rest of me is saying something else... x
02/09/2013 at 22:28
It must be so hard to think rationally, let alone with the truck load of hormones pregnancy so kindly throws at us.
Being blunt, it doesn't sound as if he's that bothered. It's hardly the actions of someone trying to save a relationship.
Re the photo, even if it is an old one, it's a bit odd recently changing it if he's not supposed to be with her anymore. One of him and his son would be fair enough, but of the 3 of them - that's just odd.
As I said before, it's time to start thinking of yourself and baby only.
02/09/2013 at 22:39
It feels like that so much of the time then he gets all emotional and I end up feeling all over the place again (he does suffer with clinical depression anyway but the ups and downs are just way too much for me at the moment)
He says she changed the photo, he'd left himself logged in but it's such a public statement and he didnt rush to remove it and that really really hurts.
I think you're right. I've started to look into living arrangements and costs for just me and baby. Just wish I knew what sort of income I will have once I'm on ML, would make the rational bit a bit easier! x
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