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08/02/2017 at 12:02
08/02/2017 at 12:10
Have you sought any professional opinions? There's nothing at all to apologise for, or do feel ashamed of.
it sounds to me like you were unable to enjoy the first few months with your little one due to all the drama and now that it's over and done with you still hold resentment to those involved. And rightly so.
I think you should have a confident talk with your gp if you can xx
08/02/2017 at 12:27
Thanks for you reply Lro, no I haven't but have thought about it, I really do resent them and as a result of everything that happened they are not allowed to have kids on their own (my choice) which I then feel guilty for.
I have never been one for talking and always find a reason to put off speaking to someone but I know it's time to bite the bullet as I can't keep getting angry with oh and I certainly don't want my kids to think I am sad all the time :( xx
08/02/2017 at 12:53
its always good to vent and not keep everything pent up inside. At least you know there's nobody to judge you here. I think it makes sense to not allow them to have your children alone. You're their mother and in laws need to prove themselves to you in the meantime xx
08/02/2017 at 17:30
I found going from 1 to 2 really hard. And it sounds like you had a hard start. I'd suggest talking to someone as I never did and really wish I had xx
26/06/2018 at 20:51
Couldnt read and run!
A new baby and a child becoming a sibling for the first time is so important and to have that overshadowed by arguments and drama is so sad and im sorry your family had to go through that. But well done for carrying on as normal for lo and baby as its easier said than done. Maybe have a word with your GP as they can give their opinion. I would feel totally the same way though, your allowed to feel how you do. Even if everyone else wants to brush it under the carpet . sending love x
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