Hey all i have been doing alot of reading in the forum and one word that i dont no is erpc????? im going to the doctors tomorrow to find out whats going on it has almost been a week since i found out about my missed mc. Its hard to get over when i watch tv all i can see is babies and it brings me to tears. I watched brothers and sisters tonight and where tommy's wife goes into premmy labour i startedto cry i couldn't watch it. I want my baby back as much as possible i was so looking forward to having it in my arms at christmas time. Like my daughter is 11 and im only 30 and was told i cant have any more kids then i fell with this 1 and i loose it i feel like a great disappointment to every1 around espeically my daughter as she is always asking me to have a baby brother or sister for her. It really sadden's me.

I have felt movement and lower pains but i dont no wether to go to hospital or not they double me over where i almost loose my breath then they go again and the headaches wont stop they come and go. but still has been no bleeding. my clothes still dont fit me and still have to wear maternity and i get all depressed. I cant sleep still have slept all night since i found out i was pregnant i feel as if all my frinds have deserated me now. My cousin is due a month b4 i was and i dont want top see her im all happy for her but for some reason i cant it hurts way to much. what can i do ??????

Hey all i have been doing alot of reading in the forum and one word that i dont no is erpc????? im going to the doctors tomorrow to find out whats going on it has almost been a week since i found out about my missed mc. Its hard to get over when i watch tv all i can see is babies and it brings me to tears. I watched brothers and sisters tonight and where tommy's wife goes into premmy labour i startedto cry i couldn't watch it. I want my baby back as much as possible i was so looking forward to having it in my arms at christmas time. Like my daughter is 11 and im only 30 and was told i cant have any more kids then i fell with this 1 and i loose it i feel like a great disappointment to every1 around espeically my daughter as she is always asking me to have a baby brother or sister for her. It really sadden's me.

I have felt movement and lower pains but i dont no wether to go to hospital or not they double me over where i almost loose my breath then they go again and the headaches wont stop they come and go. but still has been no bleeding. my clothes still dont fit me and still have to wear maternity and i get all depressed. I cant sleep still have slept all night since i found out i was pregnant i feel as if all my frinds have deserated me now. My cousin is due a month b4 i was and i dont want top see her im all happy for her but for some reason i cant it hurts way to much. what can i do ??????

Me again! I just posted on your other message. Life is so cruel. Most of my friends were great but others didn't ring us at all after I lost our baby as they didn't know what to say, Maybe text a few people and say you could do with a chat.

An ERPC means Evacuation of Retained Products of Conception. People call is a D&C too. It's a minor procedure to remove the baby and sac etc. It's your choice and you don't have to have it. I had the ERPC as there was no fetus in my case and I just wanted it all to be over.

I had splitting headaches too when I was waiting for my op. It's a horrible thing to go through but I promise you will get better. I cried every day for about 3 weeks but you will start to feel better.

And don't give up on another pg. I don't know your circumstances but you are only 30 so time is on your side.

Take care hun,

J x

hey thank you 2 you have been great i go to doctors today and see what happends and i will let you know

hope all goes well drs today. thinking of you.
love becsxx

hey all well i went to the doctors and has sent me for more pregnacy test to what they come back as so i will let you no the results tomorrow

just wondering how you are

Hey there all i have been so busy in the last couple of days i had another ultra sound yesterday and you can see were the baby was. my uterus is long what ever that means. but i will keep you all posted. I cant beleave how you guys have helped me thank you to all of you. Since i have been chating on here im seriously thinking of doing a couceling certificate to help women cope with misscarriages and single mums