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16/11/2016 at 07:13
Hi,I'm desperately needing some help! I'm currently pregnant ( unplanned)& haven't been with my partner since I have found out! I offered him a contact centre where he could visit our child without me so he has his own private time he's refusing and saying I'm a bad person for that and that he's taking me to court because every Saturday is not ok! He claims that he wants to be able to come to my house to see baby which I've already told him no as I do not want to be anywhere near him as at the start of my pregnancy he threatened to take my child back to his home country! I honestly Do not know what to do! He's not interested in the baby at all it's all about control and also to add he has not bought or supplied anything for our baby I've just been left to do it alll on my own!. His way or no way basically
13/12/2016 at 11:17
Did you live together before? How long? Were you married?
If he is bothering you so much and stressing you then don't let him see your baby at all. He is threatening you with a court? It's laughable! First, to take you to court he has to hire solicitor and it's not cheap. Sounds like he is not very rich. Secondly if he is not supporting your baby financially then what will be his argument?
SO don't worry much. Keep calm and enjoy your little one. Let him get on with his threats, i promise you he won't do anything, just chatting for nothing.
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