anyone want to swap?

i dont know what she said as i dont use facebook but having lived in many areas i do know that a 'appaling' word when you live in 1 area of the country may not be so 'appaling' in another if thatmakes sense? anyway i am a strong believer of of you dont know what goes on behing closed doors / shouldnt judge a book by its cover / until you have walked a mile in their shoes etc there may be more going on than people realise

believe me babymama, i can safely say that this word is appalling wherever you live. i cant repeat it or id be thrown off here in a second.

i do agree though, you dont know what goes on behind closed doors, and i wasnt judging!! id be very grateful if you took a little while to look back on our past posts to Claire, and you will see just what a friendly supportive bunch we are.we have done nothing but support claire from her very first post on here.

Lucy, you werent to know whats been said,dont worry about it.

hope everyone is ok

kas xx

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i have read though some on the posts and can see you have been supportive but doesnt it make you wonder what is going on to make her say whatever the it was? has anyone tried to speak to her?

The word used was just plain foul and as Kas pointed out if we used it on here we would be kicked off immediately.

The whole point in PP is that its a forum to chat etc and not a counseling website - everyone tries to support each other as much as they can - I have noticed that you only registered yesterday you will see over time that this site is a fantastic site but ppl will express there opinions - its a persons right to do so.

I myself have never "spoken" to Claire but have replied where I can on her posts and as everyone has we have tried to help - I think at the end of the day ppl were offended by that original statement!

Anyway I'm not gonna sit here and defend myself and all my friends on PP I have better things to do with my time and energy so have said my piece (now on two occasions) and as Claire has stated "Goodbye" this whole post becomes pointless?!

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ok, as i dont know the original statement i cant relly comment much more?!

babymama, i do hope you stay around for some of our nicer chats. im sure you'll love the site as much as we do.

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Having seven (yes u did read that right 7) children 2 of which do have their own "problems", l can understand how sometimes u wish for just 5 mins peace. But please remember these children didnt ask to be born and we are truely blesses too have them, although somedays we may think otherwise. When the days been bad (n believe me people lve had alot of them of late?) just step back take deep breath and think tomorrows another day. Things sometimes looker worse in the dark, but in the light of a new day its not realy as bad as you thought!!!. Plus u think you have problems now u just waite till their 25yrs old an away backpacking round Canada, (n u have had  no word for three days!!!), then u no the baby toddler infant and proper little person stage is well behind you! Be strong be happy people. x