they mentioned having another (already have 1dd nearly 18 months)
i'm really pleased for them, but when i found out (which was accidentally needless to say) initially i felt really disappointed. :\(
don't get me wrong, i don't resent them, i'm just angry that it's not us that's 6wks pg and i'm envious - i feel guilty for feeling like this.
i think they were lucky first time of trying too plus they're both overweight and never do exercise - i know that's up to them but we're trying to practice a healthy lifestyle and keep our BMI in the ideal range........ bla bla
DH is really upset and said to me last night "that should be us".
just have to keep telling myself that it'll be our turn soon enough - when it's our right time i suppose.
i am happy for them and i'm looking forward to becoming an aunty again but it'd be much better to become a mummy! :lol:

anyone been in this position?

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I mc 7 weeks ago and I found out last week that my friend is pg. I found out by accident too! I was very upset.....I felt guilty for not being happy for her....xx

Yeah, everyone here!!

My cousin rang up last week to say she was having her second, she fell straightaway both times. I love her to bits and was genuinely chuffed for her but there was still a part of me who was envious and wondering why it should be so easy for her and not for me.

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my friend who know we were ttc phoned my a week before my hen night to tell me she was pg. i am very happy for them as they were ttc for 2 years too. altho i am/was disapointed it wasnt me,lol

Honey your bound to be disappointed or envious its not you we all get like that at some point.

We've been trying 14 months and in that time my sister, cousin and sil have announced their pregnancies and two have now had their babies. Not to mention the girls that i'm friends with on here who i remember announcing and will soon be having their little ones and not even a faint line 4 me.

It'll be your turn soon i'm sure and then we'll all be green with envy for you.
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