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09/02/2015 at 12:21
hi everyone, I'm just wondering if anyone can give me some advise. I had 2 miscarriages one was in October last year and the other one was 3 weeks ago both miscarriages was at 4 weeks pregnant. I don't know whether to try again but I don't want to be going through the same again this time.
Has anybody else had the same thing happen to them and been ok the 3rd time? If so how long do I wait before trying again? Doctors say after a first period but I did that the second time n sadly miscarried. We want a baby so bad. But I don't know what to do. Help please x
10/02/2015 at 22:58
I can't offer any advice, but I am in the same position so know how you feel. I had a mmc at 12 weeks in Dec (baby stopped growing around 9 weeks), then fell pregnant again before next AF but had another mc at approx 4 weeks (so very early), 2 weeks ago. I thought maybe I miscarried again because too soon after the d&c and I was determined to wait this time, but doctors said no evidence this is the case (but then how many miscarriages are tested- they don't actually know!). I have now gone full circle as Im feeling quite low and now just want to ttc ASAP but worried this might happen again. Maybe useful for you to know that the nurse I saw last week told me that her advice would be to go again when we want and not wait. The doctors like you to wait for dating reasons, apparently. i reckon she was speaking from the heart as she has had 3 mc herself so had a lot of empathy for me.
hoe ope this helps a little...there is an established forum set up for ladies ttc after miscarriage- needless to say you are welcome to join...I'll post the link below ....
10/02/2015 at 22:59
12/02/2015 at 23:40
Hi huni i suffered 2 in 2013 July at 8 weeks and December at 10/12 weeks was very hard, February last year I fell again and in October 2014 I hady little boy don't give up hope, the ladies here offer so much support and advice, I would go to your gp and also ask for some advice, I was told 1 m/c is normal 2 m/c is very unlucky and after a 3rd in a row they will step in, I know it sounds harsh and not what you might want to hear I know I was shocked the way I was treated aftery m/c, but it's very surprising when you talk to the ladies how many of us have 2 in a row before having a healthy baby xxxx
14/02/2015 at 20:14
Hi elvi, thank you for your advice! and sorry for your losses.
I know the feeling I am in the same boat, really want to TTC but scared. If only it was easy ey. Good luck hun xx
14/02/2015 at 20:24
hi sarah thanks for your advice. I know I got told that 3 miscarriages and something will get done about it. This is why I'm scared to even try again.My gp are crap with my second one they couldn't even tell me whether I was pregnant or not I had to go back in a week even tho it said positive they was like that could be the chemicals in my body and then within that week I had horrible pains and was bleeding alot n bleeding clots it was horrible. N I knew I miscarried straight away.
Sorry for your losses n nice to hear that your 3rd was a healthy baby xx
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